Ohh

BFarnsworth
BFarnsworth Posts: 210 Member
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The worst thing I get when talking to someone and they ask how big I am and when I tell them there only response is "ohh" then silence. Has any one else dealt with the "ohh" ? I can't think if anyway you can take that as a positive.

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  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Why would someone ask how big you are? Can't they see you?
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    I don't think anyone apart from one very close friend has ever asked me my weight. His reaction to my being into 3 figures (in kg) was raised eyebrows and an exclamation of disbelief. Now he's into 3 figures and I'm not, so he can't say he didn't bring it on himself :)
  • BFarnsworth
    BFarnsworth Posts: 210 Member
    It was a phone conversation. It's happened on three seprate occasions.
  • karawRN
    karawRN Posts: 311
    my mind was in the gutter when "they ask how big I am" lol
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
    my (previous) post has no relation to what you're saying. I'd be hurt and mad too...
  • Philllbis
    Philllbis Posts: 801 Member
    my mind was in the gutter when "they ask how big I am" lol

    Was thinking the same thing! My response was 8 - 8.5.
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    The worst thing I get when talking to someone and they ask how big I am and when I tell them there only response is "ohh" then silence. Has any one else dealt with the "ohh" ? I can't think if anyway you can take that as a positive.

    She was probably just excited when you told her.
  • scottg1024
    scottg1024 Posts: 224
    Better than laughter...
  • Nerdybreisawesome
    Nerdybreisawesome Posts: 359 Member
    Are they looking to date you? I guess if they aren't into big guys then it's their opinion. At least they are letting you know, even if it IS in a very classless kind of way. I personally would rather see whomever in person and judge from there and personality also plays into it too.
  • know_your_worth
    know_your_worth Posts: 481 Member
    Are they looking to date you?

    I was wondering this as well. If these phone conversations are "describe yourself" moments, never having seen the person? - or if it's someone you know, who's seen you and is asking about your weight specifically.

    I can't imagine this being a reoccuring thing, since it happened over the phone. I would brush it off if I were you.
    The "ohh" response seems awkward on their part. Maybe they wouldn't have had any thing to reply with regardless of what your answer was and all they could come up with was "ohh" as an indication that they heard/acknowledged what you said.

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