Single girls I need advise....

thoseblueeyes

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cougar on the prowl...



Cougar???? really I am that old to be called a cougar? oh that made my day!:


your age is hidden and you said you haven't dated in 24 years... besides nothing wrong with being a cougar... if your hot enough to get a younger dude if that is what you wanted use it to your advantage


Thanks for the compliment ( I think..ha) Also thanks for everyone's advise and comments. I'm just going to enjoy the night and not stress about this anymore. Sounds like everyone is also on the same page that I should offer to pay for my meal. I will definitely offer that. I'm so glad that you can post something like this and get feedback and support when it has nothing to do with diet or exercise..Thanks guys !!!!

amann1976

what kind of man would make a lady pay for her meal on the first date even if she offered

kls13la

I don't think you should offer to pay. It's a first date, he's already sent you flowers, and he picked the restaurant. I think your offering to pay could be awkward.

WinnerVictorious

I don't think you should offer to pay. It's a first date, he's already sent you flowers, and he picked the restaurant. I think your offering to pay could be awkward.

i'd say this is correct. the guy asked you out. if you try to pay, he'll likely interpret it as you friendzoning him. let him pay. if you like him and want to see him again, maybe make a small joke about how you'll pay next time.

thoseblueeyes

I don't think you should offer to pay. It's a first date, he's already sent you flowers, and he picked the restaurant. I think your offering to pay could be awkward.

i'd say this is correct. the guy asked you out. if you try to pay, he'll likely interpret it as you friendzoning him. let him pay. if you like him and want to see him again, maybe make a small joke about how you'll pay next time.

That's also a great suggestions.....hummmmmm you gave me more to think about.