Does the guy at the gym seem to like me?

EatWholeFoods

I am confused because a cute guy at the gym always makes eye contact with me and we will look at each other a few seconds. He does it over and over every day for his workout and even walks by a lot like in circles and recently started using the same kind of machine I use, but two machines away from me. One time I smiled and he smiled and looked away and kept smiling. Another time I walked by the room he was in and went down the stairs and I looked up and saw him at the top of the stairs, out of the room and looking at me. We are both shy and havent said hi. Now I cant smile at him lol. I dont know if he likes me or seems to have a girlfriend or something.

darrensurrey

Move to England - we've got anti-stalker laws just come in on Sunday. :mad:

If he's shy and you're shy, then it isn't gonna happen. Otherwise, strike up a conversation. Ask him about his goals or what settings he likes to use on the machines. FFS HE SHOULD BE DOING THIS!

xeanx

It sounds like he is interested but these days you should be careful he doesn't have a girlfriend.
You should build up the courage to talk to him at least.

Sick_Beard

I am confused because a cute guy at the gym always makes eye contact with me and we will look at each other a few seconds. He does it over and over every day for his workout and even walks by a lot like in circles and recently started using the same kind of machine I use, but two machines away from me. One time I smiled and he smiled and looked away and kept smiling. Another time I walked by the room he was in and went down the stairs and I looked up and saw him at the top of the stairs, out of the room and looking at me. We are both shy and havent said hi. Now I cant smile at him lol. I dont know if he likes me or seems to have a girlfriend or something.

Do this...next time you see him using the same machine, tell him let's have a competition and see who burns the most cals in 20 minutes. The loser takes the winner for a cup of coffee...

Ice is broken and you get to have some fun at the same time....

Lmezz11

I am confused because a cute guy at the gym always makes eye contact with me and we will look at each other a few seconds. He does it over and over every day for his workout and even walks by a lot like in circles and recently started using the same kind of machine I use, but two machines away from me. One time I smiled and he smiled and looked away and kept smiling. Another time I walked by the room he was in and went down the stairs and I looked up and saw him at the top of the stairs, out of the room and looking at me. We are both shy and havent said hi. Now I cant smile at him lol. I dont know if he likes me or seems to have a girlfriend or something.

Do this...next time you see him using the same machine, tell him let's have a competition and see who burns the most cals in 20 minutes. The loser takes the winner for a cup of coffee...

Ice is broken and you get to have some fun at the same time....

^^ I like this idea!

EatWholeFoods

Haha good idea but i always out run him like ive seen him workout for months and i have endurance forever and he leaves cardio sooner but i could always challenge him and maybe he has more endurance if he has to try
a hahaha im too nervous to do that! We both always wear headphones too which is bad. He was texting someone today and ive never seen him do that but im always texting my friend about him lol.

EatWholeFoods

Hmmm i guess endurance and 20 min power workout are different! Haha and maybe i can get myself to challenge him.

Sick_Beard

Haha good idea but i always out run him like ive seen him workout for months and i have endurance forever and he leaves cardio sooner but i could always challenge him and maybe he has more endurance if he has to try
a hahaha im too nervous to do that! We both always wear headphones too which is bad. He was texting someone today and ive never seen him do that but im always texting my friend about him lol.

The idea of the challenge is not to beat his *kitten* and bruise his ego, rather a friendly way of approaching and not come across as a stalker.

dawson55510

Unless you have horns on your head which i cant see he likes you you's should talk

Sick_Beard

Unless you have horns on your head which i cant see he likes you you's should talk

That profile pic....

EatWholeFoods

Wait who seems like a stalker? Haha me or him?

stubbseyt

if you challenge him and beat him its all over hun....

he likes you! maybe u should ask him some advice on something give him a chance to impress you!

Sick_Beard

Wait who seems like a stalker? Haha me or him?

Picture both scenarios....

You ask him for the challenge in a friendly manner and he kindly rejects and you walk away with your dignity....

You go to him to struck up a conversation and he is not interested...not only is it an awkward situation but you will regret doing it every time you see him....

Go with the challenge...

EatWholeFoods

Clever guys! Thank you!

TylerJ76

Maybe you should just go up and talk to him...

The only way you will ever know, is if you try..

Irish_Eyes81

Girl he likes you For myself, I would probably take baby steps just to make sure though, haha Reading signals can be hard at times :P

WeekndOVOXO

Purposely go for the same weights. When he's doing his set, yell out "lightweight baby lightweight." Then shout ", WOOOW."