which is worse...

gotogirl81

going on a " break" or taking some time apart/ remaining friends/ seeing others if it happened... or breaking up all and just pull the band-aid off all at once?When it comes to a relationship thats been going for about 3 months but has seem to run its course..

I've been trying to be patient and do my own thing for the past month.. let us have space.. thought the absence makes the heart grow fonder saying would work work but I'm still feeling kinda meh.. It's a bout a hour long distance since I moved from being near him. He's hasn't been himself he tells me because he had the flu for a few weeks, but he made time for other things when not feeling good.

I know this isn't a relationship website but I just wanted to vent/see if anyone has dealt with this.

Dub_D

Do I even have to say it?

_the_feniks_

:huh:

DontStopB_Leakin

Do I even have to say it?

*says it for Dani*

Just break up.


*dusts off my shoulders* Always wanted to say that.

pastryari

Do I even have to say it?

YES.

Chief_Rocka

Do I even have to say it?

Stay together and work it out. Amirite?

_the_feniks_

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

drmerc

get back together then cheat on him

DontStopB_Leakin

get back together then cheat on him

I like this response better.

SofaKingRad_

I think you're looking too far into it. My bet is he has a stomach bug with some heinous gas so he doesn't want to come around you turning you off with his rotten anal air. BUUUT he does go out regardless, but without you. Why? Probably because he's going out with the guys. You see, when it comes to gettin' some from the ladies, you're viewed as a bad gross individual when sharing anal air. But when you're out with the dudes? Your'e king for having heinous anal air. Trust me on this one. :flowerforyou:

MacInCali

When it comes to a relationship thats been going for about 3 months but has seem to run its course..

Three months does not a relationship make ... especially if it's already run it's course.

I think you already have your answer.

EatClean_WashUrNuts

When it comes to a relationship thats been going for about 3 months but has seem to run its course..

Three months does not a relationship make ... especially if it's already run it's course.

I think you already have your answer.

Psychologically speaking...and "tested"...the average time it takes to truly get to know someone is 6 months. Cut Bait.

gotogirl81

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

nothing. basically I'm trying to not be THAT girl who breaks up with a guy because she is bored.

BeccaLevine

Breaks are just a way to delay the inevitable...

jofjltncb6

Do I even have to say it?

I chortled...and then guffawed.

GeekGirl23

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

nothing. basically I'm trying to not be THAT girl who breaks up with a guy because she is bored.

Honey, All relationships get boring... You have to spice it up or move on. It's hard to stay friends once they've seen you naked :P

petstorekitty

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

nothing. basically I'm trying to not be THAT girl who breaks up with a guy because she is bored.

But if you're bored... he's probably not the guy for you.

Too many fish in the sea. I like your squinty cat, BTW.

gotogirl81

I know what I need to do. I just feel HORRIBLE because he is a genuinely nice guy. just WAY to passive for me.

a_certain_shade_of_green

When it comes to a relationship thats been going for about 3 months but has seem to run its course..

Three months does not a relationship make ... especially if it's already run it's course.

I think you already have your answer.

^^ this ^^

StyxxandStones

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

nothing. basically I'm trying to not be THAT girl who breaks up with a guy because she is bored.

Honey, All relationships get boring... You have to spice it up or move on. It's hard to stay friends once they've seen you naked :P

If that were true, I wouldn't have any friends. On here or IRL. :huh:

NormalSaneFLGuy

Who cares. As long as you have the cat, it's a winning situation. Cats are way better than people.

NormalSaneFLGuy

Serious advice: Don't listen to any idiot on here that tells you to do one thing or the other. None of them have to live your life. They will give all sorts of bad advice that they themselves wouldn't follow because they don't have to live with the consequences.

GeekGirl23

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

nothing. basically I'm trying to not be THAT girl who breaks up with a guy because she is bored.

Honey, All relationships get boring... You have to spice it up or move on. It's hard to stay friends once they've seen you naked :P

If that were true, I wouldn't have any friends. On here or IRL. :huh:

Wow that's classy

WendyTerry420

Do I even have to say it?

:laugh:

HiKaren

Take charge, and take the bandaid off yourself...... Ripp that puppy off with gusto..... take a fast jog for 1/2 hr...... And refuse to waste another minute thinking of that one... Find someone new... And focus on them..

IronDame

WTF is the difference between "going on a break" and "taking some time apart"?

nothing. basically I'm trying to not be THAT girl who breaks up with a guy because she is bored.

So basically he isn't layin the pipe right?

stevewynjones

just *kitten*....

gotogirl81

BAER.

GluttonousGirl

Playtimes over.