moms, abs, etc.

Hey fellow mamas, I want to know all about your abs.

This seems to be something that most of us struggle with post-kiddos - smooshy, stretched out bellies. I have practically no torso and had two good-sized babies via c-section so uh.. yeah. I've noticed that when I flex my abs, I have a gap between two of the center muscles. That's lovely, right? I'm below my goal weight and am happy with how I look in clothes but dang, hot mess. haha. I've had SOME success doing pilates abs. I know that some things will only be able to be surgically corrected but if you've had babies and had success smoothing out your stomach, what did you do to get there??