advice about dating again

running_mom

My ex husband moved out last December and the divorce was final in April. He is clearly over things and moved on with his new girlfriend (to be honest I don't think he was ever really into the marriage... but that's another story). I was with him for 13 years. I know that's not long in the grand scheme of things. But, the last time I was on a date I was 18! I think I'm just scared of being with someone else and getting hurt. I don't know how to flirt anymore!! I know I don't want to be alone in life. I want a best friend to do anything and everything with.

Should I just force myself to go out? Try the online thing? Have a friend set me up?

myOWNinspiration

Stay single

rustyarmstrong

Hi
Like you I was married for a short time (11 years). I remained separated for many years and finally divorced. I'm now in my seventies, still single, but have been living with a delightful lady for the last 9 years. Prior to meeting her I dated quite a few women and made many great friends. So based on my experience I suggest that you remain single and endeavour to meet men who you can relate to as 'good friends'. You may find that out of this you'll eventually meet a man who you could happily settle down with. Do this, but stay single ... I believe it's better that way. I do have a website, http://www.mydatingreviewsite.com where I recently reviewed a program that I think you'd find could help you. Please have a look and let me know what you think. My best wishes for your future.
Regards
Rusty

sundevil513

I say go on as many dates as possible, meet people however you can, online, through friends, book store, wherever. Get back into the swing of things and yes force yourself to get out there, but no do not force yourself into something too committed too quickly.