Significant others and their exs

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  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
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    The ex and your boyfriend were "mature" enough to create a child- but not enough so as to stay together much after the child was born.

    You are in a relationship with a 'man' with a kid- the mother will not just go away. If the bf doesnt see the problem- you can always just do whats best for you. Leave? Explain yourself? Show him your stalking proof? (btw- FB does not need to be public- its supposed to be for friends, not many past your immediate friends even care about your status to be real)

    Or leave him and find a man you can have "firsts" with. He will not have his first kid with you - if hes been married- hes been there, done that. Are you a GIRL that wants all that crap? Then you better blow... If you are mature - maybe you can work this out. If hes the man-boy maybe thats what you chose and his games with the ex are all part of the excitement (for him? you? the ex?)

    I dont know- I just know grown ups work things out where love and children are concerned.

    Getting divorced is a sign of immaturity? wtf...