Grudge

RockandRoseRebel

I don't ever forget what people do, whether good or bad, but I'm terrible at holding grudges. Usually when I get angry, I get over it in under a day, sometimes significantly less. I think the longest I ever stayed mad was a week and that was because I was purposely trying to hold a grudge because I didn't know you could just let people fade out of your life if you didn't want them there, I thought you had to hate them. Now I know that if I don't like someone, I don't have to have them in my life, I don't need a grudge to keep them out. Which is good because I forgive over and over, even when I don't think they deserve it. Doesn't mean I trust them though, especially if they've proved over and over that they're not trustworthy, it just means I'm not mad at them for being a pathetic excuse for a human being.