Because Im FAT

chunkydunk714

I dont want to go anywhere for NYE....

nothing fits, nor does anything look good. Im bummed I've allowed myself to get to this point. And yes, I wish it were as easy as getting back up and dusting myself off...but its not that easy

Hoping to making a change so I dont feel like this next year!

cutethang1

You are gorgeous! Go out put that outfit on, you rock it at any size have a great night out. You are stunning.

miasapearl

Don't give up! As long as you keep trying and make small changes in living a healthier lifestyle you'll get there. I'm just planning to pick up food from a restaurant and eat at home by myself for NYE.

DanceForever904

I feel ya chica!!

mdyorston

I never want to go out and socialize but I'm working on it!

meshashesha2012

girl pls.. go out get a cute dress, some spanx, some cute heels and go get your NYE on.

if your dresses are too short because of weight, then throw on some cute tights .. if that doesn't work then use your boobies as smoke and mirror to detract from larger belly :laugh:

don't let your weight stop you from living your life and having fun. the eight will come off, but you can't live under a rock until that happens, so go shake that thang :drinker:

lre224

Tomorrow is the start of a new year; so make it a new start for you. Focus on making small changes for now, like eating a piece of fruit or vegetables with each meal & drinking water throughout the day. As inspiration, picture what you want to look like exactly 1 year from now- how you will feel, what you will be doing, basically a new, healthier you etc (someone suggested this to me this morning). You can do this; everyone can.

yuckidah

I dont want to go anywhere for NYE....

nothing fits, nor does anything look good. Im bummed I've allowed myself to get to this point. And yes, I wish it were as easy as getting back up and dusting myself off...but its not that easy

Hoping to making a change so I dont feel like this next year!

This is EXACTLY how I felt New Year's Eve 2011.
One year on.........last night I went out

strongmind_strongbody

I was at your starting weight in Jan 2012, and I actually really empathize. I never wanted to go ANYWHERE...not even to the grocery store. BUUUUT, I agree with the others...you should remember that your weight does not define you as a person, and you shouldn't let it hold you back from LIVING your life NOW!! You know you'd have fun if you went out, so just take a deep breath, put on something cute, and go live your life girl. :flowerforyou:

ChinniP

go look at my pictures. It'll make you feel better. :ohwell:

NocturnalGirl

I can relate, I hate going out because I hate my body.

Try to learn to love it now for the things it does for you, and you can just learn to love it even more when you've reached your goal! xx

rjt1000

I dont want to go anywhere for NYE....

nothing fits, nor does anything look good. Im bummed I've allowed myself to get to this point. And yes, I wish it were as easy as getting back up and dusting myself off...but its not that easy

Hoping to making a change so I dont feel like this next year!

so instead of going out partying, put the time in exercising and burning some calories rather than consuming them.

Make your goal to not feel the same way next Dec. 31

ldrosophila

One NYE I bought this cute blue dress and dolled myself up with make up and went out. I weighed close to 370lbs. My boyfriend almost got into a fight because someone said I look like a giant blue beach ball. I guess I got deaf to the ridicule, but it was still a wonderful night on top of the Stratosphere. Go out you'll regret it if you dont. If I can do it looking like and obese over inflated beach ball you can do it looking very gorgeous from your profile pic.

docfancy

I sooooooo feel the same. I have decided to make the best of what is right now and keep it moving to where I want to be. Don't give up!:

KenosFeoh

If your profile pictures are current, you're being WAY to hard on yourself.

fervc64

Go out and have fun tonight. You look great!

Bobby__Clerici

Even guys know this feeling. I have this friend.....
......ok, it's me...lol
Seriously, it was like...
Dear Lord,
If you can't make me SKINNY, please make all my friends FAT! :devil:
Anyway, life is to be lived. You look just fine, and we're all here to be our best at some point.
Let's not hide from the wonders of the seasons.
GO ENJOY TONIGHT!

jesswait

If you stay in tonight when you would really rather go out then you are letting the fat win. We can't have that. Go out, be safe and enjoy yourself!

chunkydunk714

I have a sliiiight more motivation to do something:flowerforyou: thanks to all the support...however, going out and getting some exercise seriously sounds like a fabulous idea!!

meshashesha2012

I have a sliiiight more motivation to do something:flowerforyou: thanks to all the support...however, going out and getting some exercise seriously sounds like a fabulous idea!!

i definitely plan on logging my dancing! :laugh:

JenniTheVeggie

This actually makes me sad. Put something on and go OUT! If I put on a swimsuit 112 pounds ago and had a blast at water parks then you certainly can go out and have fun tonight.

SoViLicious

Sorry but that is not a good enough reason. Seriously get over it and love yourself. Show some cleavage have a drink and bring in 2013 fabulous.

rjt1000

I have a sliiiight more motivation to do something:flowerforyou: thanks to all the support...however, going out and getting some exercise seriously sounds like a fabulous idea!!

dancing is good exercise......

chunkydunk714

If your profile pictures are current, you're being WAY to hard on yourself.

some have been taken within this past year but some are from when I was 30 pounds lighter... I dont take pictures anymore

Sharkington

I know how you feel, completely. I used to have some really bad days where I would look in the mirror after putting on clothes to go out and would just get depressed - this even happened when I lost the weight, but I still didn't like what I saw. I missed quite a few opportunities because I was so focused on how bad I thought I looked. I stayed home, stubborn and crying - I missed days out with friends, I missed a chance to go to the ballet - and looking back, I regret it because I believe I still would have had fun once I got there. However, it definitely feels more complicated than just "being happy and going out" and trust me, I know being told that isn't going to change that mindset immediately. However, try pushing yourself to get dressed and go out and try to realize that what you see, isn't what others are going to see. You might be very surprised by how good you feel about yourself by not letting those negative emotions hold you back from having a good time - your weight loss journey is not entirely about looking better physically, but also feeling better emotionally and mentally. Maybe today is a good day to try working on that part, too.

fervc64

Sorry but that is not a good enough reason. Seriously get over it and love yourself. Show some cleavage have a drink and bring in 2013 fabulous.

Best New Years advice ever

hendinerik

please go out or invite peeps and celebrate! You are ALIVE and you deserve happiness - which is about much more than a number or a idealized version you have of yourself!

Peace and Happiness - go crazy and happy new year!

DoingitWell

Please remember that no matter where you go there is always going to be somebody fatter.... I just got back fromt he Bahamas and there were huge women walking on the the beautiful beaches in bikinis. They were haviing the time of their lives. They didn't let their weight stop them and neither should you.

tlatrice13

I dont want to go anywhere for NYE....

nothing fits, nor does anything look good. Im bummed I've allowed myself to get to this point. And yes, I wish it were as easy as getting back up and dusting myself off...but its not that easy

Hoping to making a change so I dont feel like this next year!

so instead of going out partying, put the time in exercising and burning some calories rather than consuming them.

Make your goal to not feel the same way next Dec. 31

GREAT. IDEA!!!! I'll drink to that! :drinker: LOL!!!!

I too don't want to go out because I'm fat. But I'm gonna ring in 2013 getting in shape!

Thank you SO much for the suggestion!!! PowerStrike 5 here I come! I'm already wearing my workout clothes too! Woohoo!

MarthaLoraine

I stayed home and worked out and am going to bed early to get back on a regular sleeping schedule for the upcoming spring semester.

I feel like a very unadventurous boring 20 yr old.