How do i meet new friends in real life?

Hello,
I just moved to a new area and was looking for ideas on ways to meet new friends. Ideas?
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  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    meetup.com
  • dym123
    dym123 Posts: 1,670 Member
    meetup.com


    Ditto
  • Jessi_Brooks
    Jessi_Brooks Posts: 759 Member
    Find MFP people in your area.
  • DamnImASexyBitch
    DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
    Take some classes/play some sports at your local park district.
  • WhoTheHellIsBen
    WhoTheHellIsBen Posts: 1,238 Member
    Stalking, works everytime
  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    Stalking, works everytime
    It really does.
  • Rum_Runner
    Rum_Runner Posts: 617 Member
    Work
    Classes
    MFP in the local area
    Clubs
    Gym


    Strike up a conversation with someone...you never know!
  • I_wanna_live
    I_wanna_live Posts: 227 Member
    What kind of friends are you looking for?
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    Stalking, works everytime
    It really does.

    I can verify this.
  • chervil6
    chervil6 Posts: 236 Member
    lol @ stalking :laugh:
  • Hopeful_
    Hopeful_ Posts: 39 Member
    Join groups you're interested in, such as sports classes, etc, you'll meet people who have the same interests as you. Once you make a few friends, ask them to introduce you to more of theirs. Also recreational things, like going out if that's what you enjoy, you're bound to meet people! Good luck! :)
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    Stalking, works everytime

    I very much enjoyed this answer :)


    If you have very specific interests and there are groups in your area that cover those interests I would say that's the best place to start. That way you make friends with people that like what you like.
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
    Craigslist
  • Jul158
    Jul158 Posts: 481 Member
    I moved to a new city last year and was working on making new friends. It helps to join a gym and take classes that interest you. You'll have to step out of your box to talk to others but it helps. I also spend less time in my apartment and using groupon to try new things. I also met a real life friend on MFP when we found out we live a mile or so from each other : )
  • Looking for friends mostly to just hangout with. Fitness friends would be a plus also.
    What kind of friends are you looking for?
  • dantrick
    dantrick Posts: 369 Member
    you could look for different types of activity clubs and join one. e.g. hiking, biking, skiing. find something your interested in and see if there are any local to you. you get to meet some really cool people and get some health benefits too.
  • Eleanorjanethinner
    Eleanorjanethinner Posts: 563 Member
    meetup.com


    Ditto

    Yup, I'd third that. I moved to a new country and have found a great group of folks through monthly boardgames at a cafe. I also joined a choir but that was a bit of a write-off as most of the folk there are old and we don't actually get time to socialise during rehersals.
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    www.cuddleparty.com
  • tjs616
    tjs616 Posts: 51 Member
    meetup.com

    This is exactly what I came here to say! I've also met some great people from MFP
  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
    www.cuddleparty.com

    This is what I do
  • the_journeyman
    the_journeyman Posts: 1,877 Member
    Walk down an area you frequent. Open your mouth and say "hello" to the people you pass.

    JM
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    www.cuddleparty.com

    This is what I do

    yup thats how him and I met.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Im not sure I understand the question. You want to make friends? Why not just live your life and talk to people along the way?
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    I really want to type in cuddleparty.com and see what it is..... hm...

    It's tough to make friends as an adult. Do you have kids? They're often an ice breaker, even though I do not fit in with the track suit wearing snooty park park moms because........... I don't.
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    www.cuddleparty.com

    This is what I do

    yup thats how him and I met.

    WHAT?! You told me you didn't meet anyone else?!
  • Mutant13
    Mutant13 Posts: 2,485 Member
    Is "real life" the negative space around my computer?

    I don't like it. It's loud and sticky.
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    Join a gym, the group exercise classes at my gym have a pretty awesome community feel and will sometimes meet up for group lunches.
    Find club sports and sign up, many you don't have to have a team you can sign up and be assigned to a team or just show up and someone will pick you up when if their low on participants.
    Find a hobby club for your interests.
    Depending on the company you work with, get involved in their activities (mine has volunteer opportunites and various leadership committees you can join).
    If you are a member of a professional organization attend their workshops and social gatherings in your area.
    If you are a young professional most cities have non-descript associations for young professionals.
    If you're just starting a job, be available to go out to happy hour with co-workers (just be careful how much you drink and how loose lipped you get when you drink)

    Finding something that automatically grounds you in common interestes at least help to begin the conversation, you already have a common talking point.
  • estherdfoster
    estherdfoster Posts: 127 Member
    you can always type your area on here in the search tab for looking for friends an you can add them on here since they have goals to be healthy too an you guys can meet up an stuff...that is what i did.
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    www.cuddleparty.com

    This is what I do

    yup thats how him and I met.

    WHAT?! You told me you didn't meet anyone else?!
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  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    Is "real life" the negative space around my computer?

    I don't like it. It's loud and sticky.

    then you are doing it right.