Seriously...

melnia89
melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
Is it just me or are some the people on this site extremely rude? I am here looking for support and to gain some knowledge...not to be put down. I'm not trying to start anything. Am I the only one on this?
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  • tynger112
    tynger112 Posts: 351
    Whats on your mind?
  • I think its the case with all forums in general... people find it easy to hide behind their monitors
  • melnia89
    melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
    I misread someone's post so i replied with something that was not accurate and some lady was like THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. People are here for advice anyways.. so there are gonna get a bunch of mixed info. lol
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
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    People can be rude. You cannot control this. That's life. Take what you want from this site, interact with the ones you feel are nice, block the rude ones, leave the rest alone.

    /end
  • plynn54
    plynn54 Posts: 912 Member
    lol make sure you don't spell anything wrong or you will get comments for that! I mostly just read what people write now, because i suck at spelling and people point it out
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    Yes because having 5 posts a day about mean people says "I must be the only one that finds this site to have rude people"
  • melnia89
    melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
    This isn't a everyone comment thread.. but thanks
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    If this is the thread you are talking about, I don't think the other poster was rude, let alone "extremely rude".

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/837886-i-just-don-t-get-it
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    if i had a dollar every time i read a thread like this, i'd be a millionaire.
  • melnia89
    melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.
  • jennaworksout
    jennaworksout Posts: 1,739 Member
    people suck sometimes :grumble: ....i try to ignore and just read the posts that are helpful
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    This isn't a everyone comment thread.. but thanks
    Thread on a public forum... means everyone that has an account on mfp can comment...kinda how internet forums work. You must be new.

    Edit: to add a word cuz my tablet ate it.
  • Eskimopie
    Eskimopie Posts: 235 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    i'd just ignore it and move on :) don't let it make you upset, its just someone on the internet! They can't hurt you unless you let them.
  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    This is ridiculous.

    You're posting information on a public forum. By doing that, it's up for comment and debate. If you don't want anyone to ever challenge you, don't post. On the other hand, instead of getting defensive, you might be able to hear them out and learn something new.

    The person who commented on your comment was not being rude to you. She simply asked for you to clarify your point.
  • LittleMiss_WillLoseIt
    LittleMiss_WillLoseIt Posts: 1,373 Member
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  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    I'm sorry it made you feel bad, but I honestly don't think that poster was trying to do that. I think she was just confused by your reply and was trying to correct the response so the OP wouldn't be misinformed.

    Sometimes people on this site are direct with their responses, but the vast majority aren't intending to be hurtful.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
    if i had a dollar every time i read a thread like this, i'd be a millionaire.

    I wanna be a billionaire, so friggin bad...
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    Yes, I just need one more square and I have BINGO
  • olsondre
    olsondre Posts: 198 Member
    Some people are rude, some are polite, some are helpful and some are full of *kitten*. It is the internet; it is the only place some of us get to be alpha. You will get used to it.
  • melnia89
    melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    This is ridiculous.

    You're posting information on a public forum. By doing that, it's up for comment and debate. If you don't want anyone to ever challenge you, don't post. On the other hand, instead of getting defensive, you might be able to hear them out and learn something new.

    The person who commented on your comment was not being rude to you. She simply asked for you to clarify your point.

    We all have our definition of rude apparently. but thanks.
  • redwan2001
    redwan2001 Posts: 286 Member
    Seriously yes girlie some people can be really rude on here instead of supportive, just brush them off and keep on going. Their are more supportive and caring people on here then haters lol.

    Nadia
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Yes, I just need one more square and I have BINGO

    Should I post about women lifters getting bulky?
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    Yes, I just need one more square and I have BINGO

    Should I post about women lifters getting bulky?
    That would give me 4 corners, does that count?
  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    This is ridiculous.

    You're posting information on a public forum. By doing that, it's up for comment and debate. If you don't want anyone to ever challenge you, don't post. On the other hand, instead of getting defensive, you might be able to hear them out and learn something new.

    The person who commented on your comment was not being rude to you. She simply asked for you to clarify your point.

    We all have our definition of rude apparently. but thanks.

    So why come on here and accuse someone of being rude to you and not post the whole story? Why not confront said "rude" person and ask what they meant instead of making a whole new thread to complain about them behind their back?
  • melnia89
    melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
    Seriously yes girlie some people can be really rude on here instead of supportive, just brush them off and keep on going. Their are more supportive and caring people on here then haters lol.

    Nadia

    THANKS.
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    I think Cate Blanchett is awesome
  • melnia89
    melnia89 Posts: 34 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    This is ridiculous.

    You're posting information on a public forum. By doing that, it's up for comment and debate. If you don't want anyone to ever challenge you, don't post. On the other hand, instead of getting defensive, you might be able to hear them out and learn something new.

    The person who commented on your comment was not being rude to you. She simply asked for you to clarify your point.

    We all have our definition of rude apparently. but thanks.

    So why come on here and accuse someone of being rude to you and not post the whole story?

    Did I not say this wasn't the first time? I really don't need your opinion.
  • KatLifter
    KatLifter Posts: 1,314 Member
    Yes, I just need one more square and I have BINGO

    Should I post about women lifters getting bulky?

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  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    I thought it was rude. and that is not the only issue i've had on here.

    This is ridiculous.

    You're posting information on a public forum. By doing that, it's up for comment and debate. If you don't want anyone to ever challenge you, don't post. On the other hand, instead of getting defensive, you might be able to hear them out and learn something new.

    The person who commented on your comment was not being rude to you. She simply asked for you to clarify your point.

    We all have our definition of rude apparently. but thanks.

    So why come on here and accuse someone of being rude to you and not post the whole story?

    Did I not say this wasn't the first time? I really don't need your opinion.

    Then don't post on a public forum. Back to square 1 we are.
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    Then don't post on a public forum. Back to square 1 we are.

    seems to be the conclusion for all of these threads