Motivated mums, mums to be, and mums in waiting

Is anyone else loosing for their baby, children, or before trying for a baby? Would love to chat. My daughter was born 12 weeks early due to severe high blood pressure, she was on oxygen for 6 months as a result, I'm loosing to hopefully give her a healthy term sibling in the next few years, and so she never worries about my health like I worry about my parents.