Creep Attractor - Do you have one?

penrbrown
penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
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I have this friend who attracts creeps. These guys seem like great, normal guys... until they interact with her. The things they say, do or just how they treat her outs them real quick.

Honestly I stopped talking to her for awhile and have just started talking to her again and I'm reminded why I love her so much. She weeds out the creeps so I don't have to waste my time (we're both single).

So my question is... do you have a creep attractor friend? Whom you like but mostly keep around so they can weed out the dating field for you? :P

AND! So you don't think I'm being especially cruel or silly... There was this one fellow who seemed like SUCH a nice guy. He was flirting with us both but ended up asking her out. After the first date he started sending her pictures of his junk. She tells him to stop, he keeps sending and sending and sending and sending. Haha! Wow, dodged a bullet with that one.

Another guy seemed SO SO NICE, but he takes her out for one date and starts bad mouthing her and treating her like crap. Another bullet dodged!

This other fellow I had a crush on seemed like such a great, sweet guy... but the moment he sees her he starts making extremely crude comments about her various body parts (she's well built okay?). Yeah. Not the sort of stuff you say to a lady you JUST MET.

Another married fellow, whom I thought was a good guy, tried to get her to cheat with him. Offered her loads of money.

Not sure what it is about her that gets these guys to out themselves but she makes them shed their nice guy skin and show their true colors. It's most convenient for me but very frustrating for her (poor thing!).

So... you know anyone like this or is she the only one in the world?
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  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    Her name is Leaky Ramirez.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    Her name is Leaky Ramirez.

    :D I see. She's your MFP Creep Attractor?
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    Her name is Leaky Ramirez.
    ^True story.
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
    I use Charmin. Fur doesnt stick to it
  • moustache_flavored_lube
    moustache_flavored_lube Posts: 849 Member
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  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    Her name is Leaky Ramirez.
    That's why she in on my FL ...

    Oh, wait.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Her name is Leaky Ramirez.

    Mine!
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    Yes.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    LOL! Poor Leaky!!! I feel for her. Really. But now I want to befriend her so I can use her misfortune.
  • gr8pillock
    gr8pillock Posts: 374 Member
    Um... I love when my honey send me pictures of his junk. :P
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    That's horrible.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    LOL! Poor Leaky!!! I feel for her. Really. But now I want to befriend her so I can use her misfortune.

    Mine! :angry:
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    LOL! Poor Leaky!!! I feel for her. Really. But now I want to befriend her so I can use her misfortune.
    No thanks.
  • BeingAwesome247
    BeingAwesome247 Posts: 1,171 Member
    No....I WAS the creep attractor....then gave up dating all together a year and a half ago. One of my best decisions
  • rlmiller73190
    rlmiller73190 Posts: 342 Member
    I AM the creep attractor friend. I just decided to start blogging about my experiences :) My life is one big WTF moment, especially at the bar.
  • Bridget0927
    Bridget0927 Posts: 438 Member
    Does she encourage the creep behavior:? Like ex. one does she send pics too?
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Creeps will get attracted to whoever they think they can get with basically. Many times its just to show off their boys, other times its simply for fun. Ladies, btw, just so you know, it goes for both genders. Though obviously to a much smaller scale of creeping done by ladies.

    PS. I have seen this more than a few times. A guy. A nice guy. A genuinely good guy who just happen to be below average/obese/ some other flaw making him look bad or worse, broke, approach a woman and get called creeper. I love you all but ladies, you gotta stop using the word to describe everybody you find unattractive...
  • RunsOnEspresso
    RunsOnEspresso Posts: 3,218 Member
    I attracted creeps. I tend to find married guys liked to hit on me. :noway:

    Then I gave up on trying to find a man and found a great guy. Funny how that works.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    Creeps will get attracted to whoever they think they can get with basically. Many times its just to show off their boys, other times its simply for fun. Ladies, btw, just so you know, it goes for both genders. Though obviously to a much smaller scale of creeping done by ladies.

    PS. I have seen this more than a few times. A guy. A nice guy. A genuinely good guy who just happen to be below average/obese/ some other flaw making him look bad or worse, broke, approach a woman and get called creeper. I love you all but ladies, you gotta stop using the word to describe everybody you find unattractive...

    Oh I'm not using it to describe normal guys. I'm using it to describe guys who ARE creeps. Who make crude comments to women they don't know, who try to get girls to have affairs with... who do generally creepy, stupid things. :)
  • graveflower316
    graveflower316 Posts: 169 Member
    I don't think there is a woman in here who hasn't had creepy guys hit on them... though, I definitely am one of those people who constantly get creeps going after me. Innocent seeming guys turn out acting very inappropriate with me randomly and send me pictures of their junk all the time (without me asking or insinuating that I ever wanted to see!) I think these guys tend to feel more comfortable with me and release their inner creeper when around me? Who knows... but I can tell you one thing, it is not fun being creeped on and if my friends used me to "weed" out people for them, I'm afraid I'd be sending creepers their way ;).
  • watergallagher
    watergallagher Posts: 232 Member
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  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    LOL! Poor Leaky!!! I feel for her. Really. But now I want to befriend her so I can use her misfortune.
    No thanks.

    Yeah. No worries. I wouldn't actually. :) I know we have a mutual distaste thing going on. I'd prefer it stay that way.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    I don't think there is a woman in here who hasn't had creepy guys hit on them... though, I definitely am one of those people who constantly get creeps going after me. Innocent seeming guys turn out acting very inappropriate with me randomly and send me pictures of their junk all the time (without me asking or insinuating that I ever wanted to see!) I think these guys tend to feel more comfortable with me and release their inner creeper when around me? Who knows... but I can tell you one thing, it is not fun being creeped on and if my friends used me to "weed" out people for them, I'm afraid I'd be sending creepers their way ;).

    I don't actually use her just for that purpose but it's kind of handy to have her around. :P
  • MizSaz
    MizSaz Posts: 445 Member
    Um... I love when my honey send me pictures of his junk. :P

    Honey is one thing; this dude was basically a stranger. Or writing a book called "How Not To Get A Second Date"
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    What guy actually thinks a woman wants to look at his junk. I don't even like looking at mine.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    The creeps seem to like my smell.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Creeps will get attracted to whoever they think they can get with basically. Many times its just to show off their boys, other times its simply for fun. Ladies, btw, just so you know, it goes for both genders. Though obviously to a much smaller scale of creeping done by ladies.

    PS. I have seen this more than a few times. A guy. A nice guy. A genuinely good guy who just happen to be below average/obese/ some other flaw making him look bad or worse, broke, approach a woman and get called creeper. I love you all but ladies, you gotta stop using the word to describe everybody you find unattractive...

    Oh I'm not using it to describe normal guys. I'm using it to describe guys who ARE creeps. Who make crude comments to women they don't know, who try to get girls to have affairs with... who do generally creepy, stupid things. :)

    The examples you gave sounds rough, except the one where he was talking to her. To many men, many women stopped being a lady long time ago and many women don't discourage, in fact often welcome, that kind of talk.

    But yeah, was just making a point. Wasn't exactly directed towards you. Just sort of a general thing
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    Um... I love when my honey send me pictures of his junk. :P

    Me too
  • d_Mode
    d_Mode Posts: 880 Member
    Um... I love when my honey send me pictures of his junk. :P

    hahaha...no creep will ever send a pic of his junk now...FAIL! :P
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    I'm pretty sure I'm that person. A friend of mine tried to 'set me up' with someone I was uninterested in. We all went to a camp fire. I avoided him and didn't talk to him. The next day he added me on facebook...everyone kept telling me he was such a nice guy. I didn't want my friends to think I was a huge ***** and after talking to a few of my friends and them teling me to add him I did. I didn't send any messages, just accepted a friend request.

    He then sent me a private message saying how attractive I was and how I made him want to "cum in a bowl"......

    That's a new one...

    *delete*

    My friends didn't believe it until I showed them the message. Then they were like "maybe he was joking". The other things he has said to me in person and online has suggested otherwise.

    There are many other stories...some worse then that one.

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