Question about husbands music choice
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Are you sure these weren't "Pink Floyd" CDs? Everything could still be OK.0
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So of course she'll be honest and tell him she started a thread on a website listing his choice of music selection and her suspicions...Right?
If he asks her.
So his msitake wasn't in being dishonest, it was that he didn't hide it well enough that she would ask.
I've solved the issue of infidelity! Don't raise suspicion!!!0 -
Nobody ever does this. But here it is.
Just ask him about it. Do not confront him about it. Just ask. Open, honest, communication. If you are concerned tell him.
Sorry it isn't as cool as the talk shows, and it won't get you on daytime TV. But just ask.
Wait, wait wait. Open, honest communication in a relationship? Tsk, tsk, tsk, you poor, naive little guy. That'll never work!
Personally, I'd like to get Aerosmith's opinon...
http://youtu.be/RLRLhV9U0kQ 0 -
I'm reminded of Knocked Up
"It's a fantasy baseball draft. I'm not cheating or anything."
"No, this is worse."0 -
If he asks her.So his msitake wasn't in being dishonest, it was that he didn't hide it well enough that she would ask.
I've solved the issue of infidelity! Don't raise suspicion!!!
No, that's not what I meant. I meant that I doubt he'd even ask the question. But, if he did, why would she lie?0 -
I hope I never become that person who gets suspicious over CD's. I mean, really?0
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My question is... who still buys CDs??0
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My ex-hubby loved Pink. So, it's not unlikely that he's a closet fan and just didn't want you to know.
Other possibility, do you like Pink? Valentine's Day is next month...maybe they're for you?
what I was thinking, they will be with pink roses0 -
Well, no. She actually signed onto his personal Amazon account to look up his purchases. So, no, he doesn't know she can see his actual purchases, just that he purchased something. It's the same reason I use paypal anytime I order my wife a gift, because it just shows up as "paypal" on the bank statement, rather than the store (which could be a giveaway) or the item purchased. Luckily, my wife and I have a good relationship, and I know she wouldn't go behind my back to try and hack into my paypal or Amazon accounts to look at my purchases, just like I'd never do that to her.Unless he is rather dense (which is a possibility) would he have used your card to pay for them if they were for some nefarious reason?Well he must be as he lied about it already
My thought, too. He used his wife's card and knows she can see his purchases, but he lied anyway. Kinda dense to me.
I would say he is less in the wrong than she is. What if it was intended as a gift for the wife? I sure as hell wouldn't tell the truth on buying something if it's something I wanted to surprise her with.0 -
If he asks her.So his msitake wasn't in being dishonest, it was that he didn't hide it well enough that she would ask.
I've solved the issue of infidelity! Don't raise suspicion!!!
No, that's not what I meant. I meant that I doubt he'd even ask the question. But, if he did, why would she lie?
So it is what you meant.
You're saying that dishonesty was the issue, even if it's a white lie stemming from embarrasment at liking a 'girly' artist (something a lot of folks do, I know I have a 'when folks might hear playlist' and a 'noone's around' playlist).
The idea of posting your relationship's dirty laundry on a website is something that would upset a lot of people, and in the case of the OP if her husband didn't want her knowing about his guilty pleasure I can't imagine he'd be thrilled that a whole mess of people know about it online now. But that's ok because he wouldn't think to ask the very specific question that would reveal what she had done.0 -
Just to clarify...I wasn't checking up on him. He ordered them off of Amazon (my debit card is on his account for ordering shows/movie that we stream through our blu-ray) and used my card to pay for them.
Unless he is rather dense (which is a possibility) would he have used your card to pay for them if they were for some nefarious reason?
If I wanted to get some CDs for my mistress then I certainly wouldn't use a joint account I had with my wife to pay for them. No self respecting lothario would be that shoddy.
I'd use cash and buy them from Target :laugh:0 -
Maybe he bought them as a gift for you? Is it that big of a deal if they're for him?0
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But that's ok because he wouldn't think to ask the very specific question that would reveal what she had done.
I have a list of 43 questions which I ask my wife every three hours, for this very reason.0 -
I'd use cash and buy them from Target :laugh:
But then he'd have to face the check out girl. And you know he'd turn red and then she'd know they're for him.
No way!0 -
I'd use cash and buy them from Target :laugh:
But then he'd have to face the check out girl. And you know he'd turn red and then she'd know they're for him.
No way!
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But that's ok because he wouldn't think to ask the very specific question that would reveal what she had done.
I have a list of 43 questions which I ask my wife every three hours, for this very reason.
Damnit! I asked 'did you put arsenic in my cereal?' and not 'did you put cyanide in my cereal?'0 -
I'd use cash and buy them from Target :laugh:
But then he'd have to face the check out girl. And you know he'd turn red and then she'd know they're for him.
No way!
That's why even if you're buying them for yourself, you grab the cheapest roll of wrapping paper, or a gift bag at the same time. If they don't offer those, you can ask where the nearest place that sells it is. No, I've never bought embarrassing music before, but I have had to go and buy tampons for the wife, and I used this technique to cover my tracks quite nicely.0 -
I'd use cash and buy them from Target :laugh:
But then he'd have to face the check out girl. And you know he'd turn red and then she'd know they're for him.
No way!
That's why even if you're buying them for yourself, you grab the cheapest roll of wrapping paper, or a gift bag at the same time. If they don't offer those, you can ask where the nearest place that sells it is. No, I've never bought embarrassing music before, but I have had to go and buy tampons for the wife, and I used this technique to cover my tracks quite nicely.
Tampons make the most romantic of gifts.0 -
I'd use cash and buy them from Target :laugh:
But then he'd have to face the check out girl. And you know he'd turn red and then she'd know they're for him.
No way!
That's why even if you're buying them for yourself, you grab the cheapest roll of wrapping paper, or a gift bag at the same time. If they don't offer those, you can ask where the nearest place that sells it is. No, I've never bought embarrassing music before, but I have had to go and buy tampons for the wife, and I used this technique to cover my tracks quite nicely.
Tampons make the most romantic of gifts.
I know. She gets me sandwiches. We have an awesome relationship!0 -
Weird. My wife knows I listen to stuff that *might* not be socially acceptable so she wouldn't be shocked if I ordered something like a Pink CD.
I'm 35 a rockin' stereo in both my truck AND my 280Z. Both been know to blast stuff that might be embarrassing at times.
I still buy CDs too.
JM0 -
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