Describe your Ideal DATE

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  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    You guys are not taking this cereal at all!!! You are all going to go on dates and manbearpig is going to get you. I am CEREAL!
    A movie first date allows me to totally ignore you for 1.5-3 hours if it was a blind date or set up and not feel guilty that you spent too much money. I let you pick the movie so I further don't feel guilty. I get to talk about the movie after instead of personal stuff and then get to say it was too loud and gave me a headache or too long and I'm sleepy now.

    If you turned out to be real date material I can starve to death during and then say I have to go home right away cause I'm hungry giving you the opportunity to show if your interested by asking if there are any places that are open late to which I reply denny's or tommy's or tgi fridays depending on whether or not I want you to see me eat messy or get drunk.

    If you were hot but stupid or otherwise not my type but doable I can lift the divider with the excuse that my back hurts and then snuggle close to you and feel out whether you'd be good invite back to someone's place material.
    Now there's a woman that KNOWS how to make the best of a movie... nice :wink:
  • KevDaniel
    KevDaniel Posts: 449 Member
    I prefer raisins... perhaps a fig here and there.
  • iiijeniii
    iiijeniii Posts: 82 Member
    April 21. Because it's not too hot and it's not too cold. A light sweater will do.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I was gonna post that!
  • iiijeniii
    iiijeniii Posts: 82 Member
    April 21. Because it's not too hot and it's not too cold. A light sweater will do.

    I actually loved that movie!
    Was it while you were sleeping?

    Miss Rhode Island from Miss Congeniality
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    This is all based upon stuff that has already happened, things that I have particularly enjoyed.

    First date: Something neutral and common. A walk is nice, like exploring the "down town" of a town other than your own. Start small, like a coffee, then see where it goes - maybe a cute cafe, frozen yogurt (or gelato), if it goes really well, ONE glass of wine, then a hug (or tame kiss, no more than 10 seconds) goodnight.

    With "my person":
    I have enjoyed hiking, dancing, cycling, running with my person. There were long dinners and laughing. Through all of it, constant talking and enjoyment. I have enjoyed exploring another city. one of our own cities (since we don't live in the same one, lol), I have enjoyed driving through the mountains, spending a few minutes at the beach. I have enjoyed dressing up with my Darling, and getting sweaty dirty (get your mind out of the gutter, lol). I have enjoyed quiet nights drinking wine, with a fire, watching a movie and eating peanuts. Educational dinners are a blast, even if it's not my field of study/knowledge (ALL knowledge is good!). I know, that's a lot of stuff, and a lot to choose from. The common factors:
    Time spent together, doing what each other enjoys.
    Talking, laughing, touching. Lots of touching.
    Time without the kids.
    Not worrying about who's calling, what anyone else is doing.
    Calm, even if it's not always quiet.
    Relaxing, even if that relaxation causes soreness for several days, lol.
    Good food without worrying about calories/macros.

    Actual dates are few and far between, unfortunately, but ALWAYS savored and pleasantly remembered.
  • jayche
    jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
    Leg day.
  • RockaholicMama
    RockaholicMama Posts: 786 Member
    There isn't one. But, he better be creative and be ready to have fun, think on his toes and be spontaneous!
  • richied26
    richied26 Posts: 948 Member
    Rihanna !
  • i_am_kate
    i_am_kate Posts: 60
    Depends on the guy. If he's hot, but an arsehole and/or stupid, I'd take him home, have sex, then kick him out with some lame excuse like "I have to work early".

    If he's a really decent guy who's actually worth my time, then we'd just find something interesting to do where we can still get to know each other. Assuming everything was going well, we'd go home and have sex.

    Finally, if it's a date with my partner, we'd watch porn and have sex.

    Either way, I'm still getting laid. Lol.

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