A Poll -- Rate the Most Important Parts

Bane_

A definitive majority of the members of this website have joined because they are dissatisfied with some aspect(s) of their physiology. Clearly the persona and attitude of others on this website are core components to most members' desire to make a change.

Thus, a poll...

Instructions
1. Cut-and-Paste the list below into your reply.
2. Select your gender.
3. Select the gender to which you attracted.
4. On a scale of 1 to 10, rate the body parts and persona elements that "catch your eye" when you see a potential mate, contemporary or just someone that makes you think, "D*mn... I sure would like to break-off a piece of that."

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I am a MALE / FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES / FEMALES / BOTH

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes=
Hair=
Smile/Teeth=
Shoulders=
Pecks / Breasts=
Arms=
Abs=
Hips=
Butt=
Legs=
Calves=
Intellect=
Sense of Humor=
Attitude=

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Enjoy.



(added "Smile/Teeth")

Bane_

I'll start...

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I am a MALE
I am attracted to FEMALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes=8
Hair=7
Shoulders=4 (so long as she has shoulders, I'm good)
Pecks / Breasts=9
Arms=5
Abs=5
Hips=5
Butt=9
Legs=8
Calves=6
Intellect=20
Sense of Humor=8
Attitude=20

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Tennolina

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes=8
Hair=5
Shoulders=8 (so long as she has shoulders, I'm good)
Pecks / Breasts=8
Arms=8
Abs=6
Hips=3
Butt=9
Legs=8
Calves=8
Intellect=10+
Sense of Humor=10++
Attitude=10+++++

m13sam2012

I am a female
I am attracted to Males

Eyes=7
Hair= 0 (dont care if doesnt have !!)
Shoulders= 5
Pecks / Breasts 10
Arms= 10
Abs=6
Hips=3
Butt= 7
Legs=6
Calves=5
Intellect= 10
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude= 10

fcp1234

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to mostly MALES

Eyes= 1
Hair=0
Shoulders= 8
Pecks / Breasts= 1
Arms= 8
Abs=1
Hips= 1
Butt= 1
Legs= 1
Calves= 1
Intellect= 10
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude= 10

RedHotHunter

I am a Female
I am attracted to Males

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes=9
Hair=4
Shoulders= 8
Pecks / Breasts=5
Arms=8
Abs=5
Hips=0
Butt=8
Legs=7
Calves=4
Intellect=10
Sense of Humor=10
Attitude=10

And respectfully, I think you missed one. Teeth/Smile = 10

Angel37615

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 9
Hair=
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 7
Arms= 9
Abs= 7
Hips= 0
Butt= 0
Legs= 2
Calves=2
Intellect=10
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude= 9

HeavyLiftGirl

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to *mostly* MALES

Eyes= 8
Hair= 4
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 8
Arms= 7
Abs= 9
Hips= 6
Butt= 10+
Legs= 4
Calves= 4
Intellect= 10+
Sense of Humor= 10+
Attitude= 10+

Bane_

And respectfully, I think you missed one. Teeth/Smile = 10

I did. In my defense, I don't smile and have fangs. I'll add it.

RedHotHunter

And respectfully, I think you missed one. Teeth/Smile = 10

I did. In my defense, I don't smile and have fangs. I'll add it.

You get a pass because that scowl is so damn sexy.

Bane_

Is everyone rating the persona elements higher because they believe it? Or because it's "politically correct" to do so?

m13sam2012

And respectfully, I think you missed one. Teeth/Smile = 10

I did. In my defense, I don't smile and have fangs. I'll add it.

LOL! but its true!! teeth is very important though!

RedHotHunter

Is everyone rating the persona elements higher because they believe it? Or because it's "politically correct" to do so?

In my case:
Intellect=10 *I'm smart. If he's not smart it will annoy me within minutes and kill the attraction.
Sense of Humor=10 * A guy without a sense of humor will hate me within minutes.
Attitude=10 *Attitude is what keeps me going. He has to be able to keep up.

I'm surprised you ask this because I dont see anyone on your friends list that is PC for the sake of being PC.
PC is for wimps.

Bane_

Ha! Yeah... safe bet you won't find many sticklers for "political correctness" on my Friend's List.

plynn54

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 8
Hair= 5
Smile/Teeth= 10
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 1
Arms= 5
Abs= 1
Hips= 1
Butt= 4
Legs= 1
Calves=1
Intellect= 7
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude=10

Im not too picky about looks except teeth lol and prefer huskier men

Bane_

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 8
Hair= 5
Smile/Teeth= 10
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 1
Arms= 5
Abs= 1
Hips= 1
Butt= 4
Legs= 1
Calves=1
Intellect= 7
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude=10

Im not too picky about looks except teeth lol and prefer huskier men

Intellect a 7? Really? So, you kinda like 'em big and dumb? So... hoooow youuuuu doooooin.

bigphatcat

I am a MALE
I am attracted to FEMALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes=7
Hair=8
Shoulders=4
Pecks / Breasts=9
Arms=1
Abs=1
Hips=7
Butt=9
Legs=7
Calves=1
Intellect=10
Sense of Humor=10
Attitude=10

spade117

I don't see bank account listed.

NattieJoan

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to BOTH

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 8
Hair= 8
Smile/Teeth= 8
Shoulders= 2
Pecks / Breasts= 8
Arms= 5
Abs= 1
Hips= 1
Butt= 4
Legs= 4
Calves= 1
Intellect= 9
Sense of Humor= 7
Attitude= 10

Tennolina

Is everyone rating the persona elements higher because they believe it? Or because it's "politically correct" to do so?

I've dated the "pretty but stupid' guys. After the sex, if you can't have a decent conversation, it's a total buzz kill.

Tennolina

BTW...why aren't any other guys answering? We wanna know what y'all find sexy, too!

Rum_Runner

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")

Eyes= 9
Hair= 5
Smile/Teeth= 8
Shoulders= 1
Pecks / Breasts= 1
Arms= 4
Abs= 4
Hips= 1
Butt= 3
Legs= 1
Calves= 1
Intellect= 10
Sense of Humor= 10+
Attitude= 10+

Unforgotten13

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to BOTH

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 9
Hair= 4
Smile/Teeth= 2
Shoulders=7
Pecks / Breasts= guys: 0 Girls: 9
Arms= 10
Abs= 6
Hips=6
Butt= guys: 3 Girls: 8
Legs= 5
Calves= 7
Intellect= 9
Sense of Humor= 1000
Attitude= Depends. If he/she has a bad attitude, I'll put him/her on their *kitten* real quick. I don't take **** from people. Don't mess with a southern girl.

Stacyplus5

I am Female
Attracted to MALES

Eyes: 7
Hair:9 (bald)
Smile/Teeth:9
Shoulder:8
Pecks:8
Arms:8
Abs:6
Hip:1
Butt:4
Legs_5
Calves:5
Intellect:10
Sense of Humor:20
Attitude:20

funkycamper

ETA: Oops...just realized this thread was about rating what you find attractive in others, not on your own attractiveness level. Oh, well...but I still feel that attraction is more based on how much you like and enjoy the other person, what interests you share, how good that person makes you feel when you're with them, etc., so I'm not going to delete my post even though I realize it might not totally fit in the discussion. I just think appearance is over-rated. My husband is a solid 10 to me, even after 30 years together, so I just think this is all a silly discussion. Again, I'm just an old crone.

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Maybe it's because I'm a crotchety, old crone but I don't get the point of this or understand why it would be motivating. I'm 55. Even if I get to my goal weight and achieve the fitness goals I'm working toward, I'll never be a 10 when rating simply on appearance. For example, due to the weight I carried and my c-sections, I have wrinkly loose skin on my belly that will probably never be flat without surgery (which I'm not inclined to bother with). But my abs are now fairly strong and getting stronger and I have some great kids to show for it so....well, who cares?. I'm never going to look great in a bikini again but I'm cool with that and my husband thought I was a 10 even at my heaviest and weakest so, again, who cares?

But I'm already fitter and stronger than probably 80-85% of the women I know in my age group because most of them either do nothing or just walk*. In the last 18 months, I have gone from only being able to ride my bike for 5 miles before my knees ached to doing century rides. To not being able to run more than about 20 feet without feeling like I was going to die to medaling in 5k's (OK, small field and age group medal but still felt good!). From only being able to carry a light fanny-pack on my back when doing trail hikes, thus no over-nighters, to being able to carry a 40+ pound pack (working on getting to even heavier as I'm planning on some mountaineering) up/down steep trails for many more miles before I start feeling it and getting fatigued. How many 55 year old women do you know that are working toward summitting mountains? How many plan to take up rock-climbing when physically ready for it? And hang-gliding? I bet not many. I think that alone makes me a 10 (or darn near close to it!).

Sorry but this thread feels like body-shaming to me. I may not ever be a 10 on any of my body parts. But I'm going to be slender, fit, strong, and have energy and vitality that few women in my age group have. I'm already a good part of the way there and progressing every day. My abs, butt, legs and such are never going to be a 10 in the appearance department but that doesn't mean that I'm not doing to be a 10 in my functional fitness and achievements. I'm already a solid 7 on that, imho, and will definitely be a 10 someday (once I'm standing on the top of Mt. Rainier, LOL).

I don't want to be judged on a body part. I want to be judged on what I can do. But that's just me, I guess.

* Just want to say there's nothing wrong with just walking if that is your fitness goal. Just isn't enough for my personal goals.

Bane_

Maybe it's because I'm a crotchety, old crone but I don't get the point of this or understand why it would be motivating. I'm 55. Even if I get to my goal weight and achieve the fitness goals I'm working toward, I'll never be a 10 when rating simply on appearance... ... ....

99% of the answers thus far clearly indicate that the "most attractive" elements of a person have nothing to do with weight or fitness.

You're welcome.

RedHotHunter

LOL
Bane, you were looking for Monday morning grumpiness. There you have it. Enjoy!
I'm off to make people smile and laugh.
:flowerforyou:

plynn54

I am a FEMALE
I am attracted to MALES

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 8
Hair= 5
Smile/Teeth= 10
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 1
Arms= 5
Abs= 1
Hips= 1
Butt= 4
Legs= 1
Calves=1
Intellect= 7
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude=10

Im not too picky about looks except teeth lol and prefer huskier men

Intellect a 7? Really? So, you kinda like 'em big and dumb? So... hoooow youuuuu doooooin.

yes I guess so lol bigger and dumber than me lol

amandapye78

I am a Female
I am attracted to Males

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")
Eyes= 7
Hair= 2
Smile/Teeth= 4
Shoulders= 4
Pecks / Breasts= 3
Arms= 5
Abs= 4
Hips= 1
Butt= 2
Sense of Humor=10-without a good sense of humor he would hate me lol
Attitude=10
Intellect=9

amandapye78

haha, I do have to say though that I feel really sorry for dumb people since intellect is so important. No one loves an IQ challenged person.

John2347

what about a sexy back?