Am I just being too sensitive?

tipadoo

What do you think of this....my husband's oldest daughter has a baby in the middle of the night. My husband drives me to work the next morning and as I am getting out of the car, he says "well I'm off to the hospital" I couldn't believe he was going to see the baby without me! I thought we would go after supper that night - he never said a word about going during the day. I have the type of job that I can easily get the day off at the last minute. Later I see pictures of him and his ex-wife standing together by their new grandchild - I'm assuming that is why I was ditched, because he wanted to spend time with his "real family" Am I wrong to be hurt?

whierd

You're being a bit sensitive. He could have been a little more considerate and told you beforehand to ask you if you wanted to go, but he may not have if his ex-wife doesn't like your or vice versa. Plus I don't really understand why he should have to wait for you when you were planning to go that night anyway.

ToughTulip

Yes I do think you are being too sensitive.

It is his grandchild. He shouldn't have to wait to go see it! I'm sure he was excited and wanted to see the baby ASAP. He shouldn't have had to wait until night time to go see. I would want my dad to see the baby as soon as he could if it were mine.

I highly doubt that it had anything to do with his ex-wife or wanting to be with his "real family" and leave you out.

whierd

^^Is a tough tulip. Must listen to her.