Eating out with friends who try to sabotage you!

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  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    I'd like to congratulate you on standing your ground. That is very difficult to do!
  • Debbe2
    Debbe2 Posts: 2,071 Member
    Food represents love to a lot of people. Good for you for focusing on your goals when confronted with old routines :flowerforyou:
  • janiesue101
    janiesue101 Posts: 84 Member
    Great Job staying strong! Keep up the great work and before you know it youll have another 40 pounds off.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Not like 1 night eating out in a social situation would have killed you or made you obese again either

    No, but it could have set off a binge that would have resulted in a five pound weight gain. A lot of men do not understand how vulnerable dieting women are to binging. Diets are, in my opinion, the cause of binging. It really was quite unkind of the friend to keep hammering the OP with food. Are you sure she isn't a "frenemy" OP?

    Good point. I forget sometimes how weak minded women are and how little control they have over their own destinies. It's a wonder they ever live past 30 without a strong man to stand over them, protect them, and cut their meat for them.

    Thanks for the reminder. I'll be sure to think twice before I tell a woman that she has control of her life.
  • SanteMulberry
    SanteMulberry Posts: 3,202 Member
    Not like 1 night eating out in a social situation would have killed you or made you obese again either

    No, but it could have set off a binge that would have resulted in a five pound weight gain. A lot of men do not understand how vulnerable dieting women are to binging. Diets are, in my opinion, the cause of binging. It really was quite unkind of the friend to keep hammering the OP with food. Are you sure she isn't a "frenemy" OP?

    Good point. I forget sometimes how weak minded women are and how little control they have over their own destinies. It's a wonder they ever live past 30 without a strong man to stand over them, protect them, and cut their meat for them.

    Thanks for the reminder. I'll be sure to think twice before I tell a woman that she has control of her life.

    :laugh: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:
  • phdiva12
    phdiva12 Posts: 79 Member
    LOL- just realized my typo! I wonder how many calories?!
  • wimeezer
    wimeezer Posts: 404 Member
    Well done you!
  • rsharper97
    rsharper97 Posts: 242 Member
    I think its great you were able to stick to your guns and not indulge. It is a very tough situation you were in but I think you handled it beautifully!