Wife shopping for clothes

Otter1422

Shopping for clothes for either my wife or myself has long been a not so fun adventure as I am sure some you of you on this site can relate to. Uncomfortable just walking into the store, no you can't help me unless you can take 60LB off my gut and make me fit into let alone look good in anything in your store. Everyone in the store is thinking what is he looking at in here there is nothing in here for someone like him/her. For my wife it has been very frustrating, she is a gorgeous woman and always has been but she gained weight when she meet me and we got married. My wife is a giver she has always taken care of our children before herself. She took care of my mother at the end of her life and also my grandmother for years at the end of her days. Only recently in the last couple of years when I started an account at a salon here in town with money that could not be spent elsewhere because it was already spent and sitting there for her to use did she start going there regularly. She used to go only once or twice a year. We travel for some of my work and often before we go we will go shopping and try and pick up a few outfits for her, about the only time she buys herself anything new to wear, and it has always been very hard on her as I know she did not like the way she looked in clothes and I felt just horrible for her. In my eyes she was/is still gorgeous but I know she did not see herself that way.
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