New and need to lose 71lbs

Hi there. I am 28 years old and a mother of 2. I just had a baby 2 months ago and am looking to lose this weight once and for all. I want to weigh 165lbs, which means I have 71lbs to go. When I hit 165 I will finally be at a healthly BMI. I go back to work full time on March 4th. My husband travels for work during the week, so it is just me and the kids during the week. I am looking to meet other working parents who can help give me the motivation and support to get this done. Also I might mention that I really dislike exercise, that and it really hard for me to get out with the kids by myself. If anyone has any recommendations for at home workouts I would love to hear them. Please feel free to add me. I need some friends.