Does your spouce ever make you feel fat?

zuzuanne88

My fiance never told me directly,but somehow I feel like if I were pretty and thin he would treat me better and want to support me.it makes me feel like less of a women.Does anyone else have this problem?

hbrittingham

No, and I am sorry that you feel that way. Have you talked to him about this? If you are planning on marrying him, this is something that should be addressed before the wedding. Things won't magically get better after you say your vows. If he's not treating you well now, then he won't treat you well just because you are married.

Are you sure it's not just your self esteem that makes you feel that he would treat you better if you were "pretty and thin"?

jamie610811

I did have this and decided I was better off without her in my life ,

It's bad enough that we feel like s**t , then to have someone who should love you no matter what.
not support you is a real kick in the nuts

5ftnFun

Does he do anything to make you believe this, or do you just "feel" it? What I mean is, are your feelings justified? Hard for us outsiders to know. If he is mean, makes cruel jokes or comments, etc, then yeah, dump him. He will not be there for you for the long haul. But make sure you are not letting your own insecurities get in the way of true love.

trophywife24

Is it him making you feel that way or is it you being insecure and feeling that way? What does he do/say?