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Does your spouce ever make you feel fat?

zuzuanne88
zuzuanne88 Posts: 104 Member
edited January 12 in Chit-Chat
My fiance never told me directly,but somehow I feel like if I were pretty and thin he would treat me better and want to support me.it makes me feel like less of a women.Does anyone else have this problem?

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  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    No, and I am sorry that you feel that way. Have you talked to him about this? If you are planning on marrying him, this is something that should be addressed before the wedding. Things won't magically get better after you say your vows. If he's not treating you well now, then he won't treat you well just because you are married.

    Are you sure it's not just your self esteem that makes you feel that he would treat you better if you were "pretty and thin"?
  • jamie610811
    jamie610811 Posts: 1,735 Member
    I did have this and decided I was better off without her in my life ,

    It's bad enough that we feel like s**t , then to have someone who should love you no matter what.
    not support you is a real kick in the nuts
  • 5ftnFun
    5ftnFun Posts: 948 Member
    Does he do anything to make you believe this, or do you just "feel" it? What I mean is, are your feelings justified? Hard for us outsiders to know. If he is mean, makes cruel jokes or comments, etc, then yeah, dump him. He will not be there for you for the long haul. But make sure you are not letting your own insecurities get in the way of true love.
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    Is it him making you feel that way or is it you being insecure and feeling that way? What does he do/say?
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