The real kind of stalkers

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  • I would tell him no!! If he continues, I would call his superiors. He honestly may not realize how creepy he is being.
    What is he calling for? Has he left a message?
    I don't know if he is stalking me but I got pulled over by a cop the other day. Now he is calling my house... oh by the way I did NOT give him my number he found it out by using his connections with his job... I feel unsafe and creeped out.
    That's a breech, call his supervisor

    I know I need to, but I'm afraid if i do then what will he really do?? Will he show up at my house ? I thought about reporting it but I might just ignore his calls and hope he goes away.

    He wants to know if I would like to meet him for dinner.
  • goody2shews
    goody2shews Posts: 129 Member
    Sometimes I wonder if listing my state is a little too specific, then I count how many guns we have and I feel fine :laugh:

    ^I hope any potentials are reading this lol

    I agree with that 100% I have one on Navy rifle team and the other an aerosoft junky who is joing the Marines next summer. It;s target practice :)
  • hilldiggity
    hilldiggity Posts: 166 Member
    I've never been stalked, but I used to stand outside this guys window one rainy winter, hoping he would open his blinds or come downstairs, but he rarely did. When he did come out, I hid behind a tree and saw him carrying take out. Then I would go back to staring. And I'm totally kidding. I'm not some freak! lol

    ^this is completely normal don't be ashamed. We call it foreplay where I'm from....ok that was bad sorry

    hahaha
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    Yes, had a stalker in real life. I was about 16-17, he was probably around the same age and mentally ill.
    He knew when i got off school and walked so close behind me that i could feel his breath. It lasted for months and when i confronted him and asked what he wanted he would just laugh. I went to the cops and they said they couldn't do anything because he didn't hurt me yet.
    My father started picking me up from school, and when he couldn't i took a different road home. I lost him for a while, and then one night i found him waiting for me close to my house. He grabbed my arm and tried to push himself against me, i hit him and ran inside. I called the cops again and this time they went and talked to his family, still nothing happened to him.
    My dad gave me a small pocket knife and taught me how to use it. I've never seen him again, but i carried that knife for a long time.
    It was a messed up experience.
  • Monica_has_a_goal
    Monica_has_a_goal Posts: 694 Member
    Sometimes I wonder if listing my state is a little too specific, then I count how many guns we have and I feel fine :laugh:

    ^I hope any potentials are reading this lol


    I don't think putting your city and state information is enough to stalk a person.. That's not specific enough unless you live in a very small rural area.. I'm a 145K population City girl :smile:
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    I don't know if he is stalking me but I got pulled over by a cop the other day. Now he is calling my house... oh by the way I did NOT give him my number he found it out by using his connections with his job... I feel unsafe and creeped out.
    That's a breech, call his supervisor

    I know I need to, but I'm afraid if i do then what will he really do?? Will he show up at my house ? I thought about reporting it but I might just ignore his calls and hope he goes away.

    I read about something like that about a year ago. Not cool. http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/cop-issues-speeding-ticket-asks-driver-date-she-002427538.html
  • Danger2OneSelf
    Danger2OneSelf Posts: 883 Member
    Sometimes I wonder if listing my state is a little too specific, then I count how many guns we have and I feel fine :laugh:

    ^I hope any potentials are reading this lol


    I don't think putting your city and state information is enough to stalk a person.. That's not specific enough unless you live in a very small rural area.. I'm a 145K population City girl :smile:

    Ya I'm a country boy, we have a population of 1100. Sometimes i wonder if I'm the only Josh in town lol
  • just4nessa
    just4nessa Posts: 459 Member
    Been stalked, harassed and cyber-stalked by someone just trying to be malicious and annoying. It's sad that there are such disturbed individuals but it's kind of comical that someone apparently finds my normal, mundane life way more interesting than their own.