Can this lady really do anything to me?

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  • Licratonic
    Licratonic Posts: 35 Member
    If she gives you any issues, just report her at the gym. It's called harassment, if she harasses you, report her and get her being warned or even better kicked out... problem solved.... maybe if she does the same thing with the driving (hopefully it doesn't happen again) but if it does, get your friend to video it with her cellphone... road rage is NOT ok, it can endanger lives... just keep your slates clean from now on... thats all... good luck!
  • Makoce
    Makoce Posts: 938 Member
    Uhm im SURE you could have found a place to turn around on her street before she got out of her car lol seriously if she beats your *kitten* you will learn NOT to be so childish you really think going into a police station and fileing a report that begins with "we followed her home by accident." Is going to turn in your favor LOL you fuked up babydoll good LUCK!

    Lol thats my snappy response, honestly id workout as much as i could to know i COULD take her if need be :) pick **** up and put it down!

    bark. bark. bark. bark.

    ( But no, her house was like 4 houses in from the street, the street runs on a loop and I planned on taking that. I could have found another place to turn around, but it was too amusing not to. I didnt expect her to get out and give me an intimidating stance, and follow me, i expected her to ignore me as im just driving past )

    If she gives you any issues, just report her at the gym. It's called harassment, if she harasses you, report her and get her being warned or even better kicked out... problem solved.... maybe if she does the same thing with the driving (hopefully it doesn't happen again) but if it does, get your friend to video it with her cellphone... road rage is NOT ok, it can endanger lives... just keep your slates clean from now on... thats all... good luck!

    If she bothers me again, with the swearing and the honking and riding my a** in the parking lot again, I will.
    In the mean time Im just going to see if the gym has cameras in the parking lot.


    Im so glad I posted this thread, its so amusing
  • AngelsInThighHighs
    AngelsInThighHighs Posts: 247 Member
    Lmao your awesome :)
  • patentguru
    patentguru Posts: 312 Member
    Move out of NY and to one of the 42 states where you protect yourself with a concealed weapons license. A gun tends to stop the other person from harming you. Don't follow anyone unless you are ready to take them on.
  • DavidC1857
    DavidC1857 Posts: 149 Member
    LOL! Well, take it as lesson learned. People are nuts these days. That's why I don't have road rage or flip people off anymore. I learned my lesson a few years back. I always tell my daughters the same thing, DON'T flip anyone off or tick them off. Of course my one daughter didn't listen and called me frantically at midnight that some guy was following her and flashing his lights at her. I asked her what happened and she said he was tailgating and she flipped him off. I told her to drive to the house and I'd be waiting outside. The guy ended up going straight when she turned off onto our road. Just be careful out there and shrug things off. :)

    Just a little tip. If someone is following you, exhibiting signs of road rage, NEVER go home. You just gave a crazy person your home address.

    Go to a police station if you know where one is, or call the police if you have a cell phone or go to a very public place with lots of people and ask someone to call the police.

    I made this mistake and it cost me a severely vandalized car. It would have cost me more if Mr. Insanity hadn't met Mr. Shotgun.
  • AngelsInThighHighs
    AngelsInThighHighs Posts: 247 Member
    Move out of NY and to one of the 42 states where you protect yourself with a concealed weapons license. A gun tends to stop the other person from harming you. Don't follow anyone unless you are ready to take them on.

    Your name is misleading lol
  • Makoce
    Makoce Posts: 938 Member
    Move out of NY and to one of the 42 states where you protect yourself with a concealed weapons license. A gun tends to stop the other person from harming you. Don't follow anyone unless you are ready to take them on.

    *kitten* can you make me a fake id and loan me some money so I can get a flight?
  • AngelsInThighHighs
    AngelsInThighHighs Posts: 247 Member
    You CLEARLY have a wolf you own just take him with you too the gym next time, when she decides to sumo stance you again just be like "oh yeah?" Point to your wolf. End game.
  • ammadove
    ammadove Posts: 97 Member
    Might be a good idea to write her a note of apology. It's always better to take the high road when possible. And you know her address. She might be as frightened as you were. What do you think?
  • Makoce
    Makoce Posts: 938 Member
    Might be a good idea to write her a note of apology. It's always better to take the high road when possible. And you know her address. She might be as frightened as you were. What do you think?

    Im not good at these things! I thought about approaching her next gym visit if I can find her.
    But I also dont want to start more stuff, or cause conflict. I dont know, Im not sure whatd I say!
    Hi, Im the person you called a stupid a**hole the other day, I wasnt actually stalking you home.
    Im sure I scared her, she scared the crap out of me too!
  • Licratonic
    Licratonic Posts: 35 Member
    I don't know about the apology, I don't think you have ANY reason to apologize... why? what did you do wrong? sure "you kinda followed her - but not even, you wanted to turn around, it just happened she was going the same way)... anyway, it's a free world, you can drive whereva you want, she's the one that's psycho!... Think about it, if you were "scared" would you jump in your car and follow the so called stalker to write down their details? I THINK NOT!... whatever, she sounds like a stressed out *****... just leave her alone, I won't apologise, if anyone should, she should, she has started it after all...with being all agro for no reason...maybe you could very sweetly suggest some mood enhancer meds, or give her a card (preferable in her windshield wiper) of a good therapist in the area... :smokin:
  • Makoce
    Makoce Posts: 938 Member
    I don't know about the apology, I don't think you have ANY reason to apologize... why? what did you do wrong? sure "you kinda followed her - but not even, you wanted to turn around, it just happened she was going the same way)... anyway, it's a free world, you can drive whereva you want, she's the one that's psycho!... Think about it, if you were "scared" would you jump in your car and follow the so called stalker to write down their details? I THINK NOT!... whatever, she sounds like a stressed out *****... just leave her alone, I won't apologise, if anyone should, she should, she has started it after all...with being all agro for no reason...maybe you could very sweetly suggest some mood enhancer meds, or give her a card (preferable in her windshield wiper) of a good therapist in the area... :smokin:

    You're sort of right. I did flip her off, granted - but she was hanging out her car window red faced screaming at me, honking her horn, revving her engines, and then proceeded to do it to other drivers.

    I just sort of feel bad that I scared her, and dont want her to think I followed her to her house for some creepy reason -- but on the other hand, she jumped in her car and followed me to my house to block me and take down my info?

    It just doesn't sound like a normal persons reaction. Id probably just go inside and lock my door.... lol.

    MAYBE it will teach HER not to be so crazy, that people can be crazy right back.
  • Licratonic
    Licratonic Posts: 35 Member
    I dont think you were crazy at all! If she did that to my hubby...lol.. he once shouted at a road rager from his window to start behaving...lmao... telling him off like a parent a child... She didn't get scared at all, and personally I think she might even have a stick up her *kitten*, nothing you will do to change anything... just avoid her in future, and if she gives you any issues REPORT her...easy... :happy:
  • RhonndaJ
    RhonndaJ Posts: 1,615 Member
    Just another thought here.

    I imagine in her mind you and your friend followed her home intentionally. It's not a stretch to think that she could be thinking of you as a stalker and nutso character, and followed you and got your licence number, etc, in order to protect herself.
  • Makoce
    Makoce Posts: 938 Member
    Just another thought here.

    I imagine in her mind you and your friend followed her home intentionally. It's not a stretch to think that she could be thinking of you as a stalker and nutso character, and followed you and got your licence number, etc, in order to protect herself.

    Or that. Maybe we could be friends then. I mean she hangs out the window yelling at cars.