MAJOR Set back

The last 6 months have been very hard I started to get a pain in my ab area. So I started all the types of tests cause I couldn't even do a plank without crying. So I found out I have diverticulitis which is so painful I couldn't even do a plank without screaming in pain ..Also while doing the tests and being on antibiotics for 3 months doctor said something is wrong so more tests he found a ventral hernia so had that repaired while he was in there he did a scope and found a Inguinal hernia had to have that repaired. So I had to put working out on hold and working on changing my diet. I knew I was putting on some weight but I was dealing with that. Well today I had to go back to the doctor because the pain is back and I stepped on the scale I don't know what was worse knowing the the diverticulitis is back or all the weight I lost I gained back I burst into tears....I am back to were I started. My husband has no sympathy he doesn't understand weight gain or being heavy. He can't gain a pound even when trying.. I don't have anyone to turn to. So I turn to complete strangers to vent and cry. Thank you all---Good luck on everyone's journey