when it rains it pours..

elizarae11

Today has basically sucked. My roommate told me yesterday he was moving out (he isn't on the lease) and he left.today CONVENIENTLY the day before rent is due so i have to pay full rent which means that i will be living on $20 until i get paid im TWO weeks.
and then to top it all off, the guy i like just asked me for advice on this girl that he likes meaning he obviously doesn't like me that way.
Blaaaah
I feel like curling up in bed with some ice cream and something strong to drink.

GluttonousGirl

Dudes suck. Have some wine.

ArtGeek22

Hang in there girl! Your ex- roommate sound like a complete jerk. And then the guys problems on top of that... <<HUGS>>

(P.S decompress!!!!)

Jen800

Sorry to hear everythings going poorly for you. Trust me, things will pick up. Look at the bright side:

Got rid of a crap-tastic roomate
you know the way the boy feels and can move on
you can focus on bettering yourself instead of putting energy into those relationships


Although it's too bad you don't have any money currently. I'd suggest hitting up the internet for coupons and sales! I know someone who had a 300 dollar food bill and only paid 20 dollars for ALL the food using coupons. (this included laundry detergent, toilet paper, etc.) just shop around and grab store coupons. (it'll give you some extra exercise too!)

Cp731

That's too bad, you didn't see it coming, with the roommate thing. Did u two have a falling out?
I get why you'd be crushed about your crush but honey, take a few days too mull over the feeling, because its still raw, and try too move on gracefully. The best thing you did for yourself was talking about it. Im proud of you. This is a step in the right direction.

elizarae11

Thanks for all the advice and comfort i just hate that it's all happening at once
Like i wish bad things would spread out and not happen all at once, ya know?

Cp731

Sweetie, its never that simple. We all have these moments, you are certainly not alone here.

eazy_

Asking you for advice about another woman, does not mean he is not interested. He may think he is friend zoned. Tell him not us.

elizarae11

I feel like i was the one friend zoned

triciab79

Asking you for advice about another woman, does not mean he is not interested. He may think he is friend zoned. Tell him not us.

^^ This. Some people give off the friend vibe even when they don't mean to. Men can be kinda dense sometimes. Every once in a while you have to go "Hey you know I think you are hot, if she doesn't take the bait, I'll go out with you."

fara180

boys are dumb
men are dumber
switch to girls
they are funner.

elizarae11

Asking you for advice about another woman, does not mean he is not interested. He may think he is friend zoned. Tell him not us.

^^ This. Some people give off the friend vibe even when they don't mean to. Men can be kinda dense sometimes. Every once in a while you have to go "Hey you know I think you are hot, if she doesn't take the bait, I'll go out with you."

I wish i had the lady balls to say that!

upgetupgetup

Asking you for advice about another woman, does not mean he is not interested. He may think he is friend zoned. Tell him not us.

^^ This. Some people give off the friend vibe even when they don't mean to. Men can be kinda dense sometimes. Every once in a while you have to go "Hey you know I think you are hot, if she doesn't take the bait, I'll go out with you."

Er... I think the OP has a read on the situation. Second guessing doesn't help, a lot of the time, in this sort of thing.

OP: sorry, that sucks. (Totally commiserating, I had a bad one too.) But, tomorrow will NOT be today

whierd

Asking you for advice about another woman, does not mean he is not interested. He may think he is friend zoned. Tell him not us.

^^ This. Some people give off the friend vibe even when they don't mean to. Men can be kinda dense sometimes. Every once in a while you have to go "Hey you know I think you are hot, if she doesn't take the bait, I'll go out with you."

Pretty much this.

triciab79

Asking you for advice about another woman, does not mean he is not interested. He may think he is friend zoned. Tell him not us.

^^ This. Some people give off the friend vibe even when they don't mean to. Men can be kinda dense sometimes. Every once in a while you have to go "Hey you know I think you are hot, if she doesn't take the bait, I'll go out with you."

I wish i had the lady balls to say that!

You have them. You just have to do it. So what if he doesn't return the feeling, at least you will know for sure and you can move on to the next guy. If it goes horribly wrong if you said it with enough confidence you can claim it was a joke. Sometimes you just have to go all in. Confidence is sexy.