75 pounds gone

butterflylady86

I have lost 75 pounds. Yeah but tell me why? Do I still feel like that fat girl still? I see men looking at me. But I'm not sure they are looking at me. Does that feeling of being the Fat Girl ever go away?

Sandrose

Hmmm...good question. For me I have never really felt like the fat girl. Maybe because I didn't gain weight until I was in my mid 30's.

Did men really stop looking at you or did you stop noticing? Something to ponder

maryannelk

It probably does take a while to adjust. And yes, as you lose weight, more men begin to notice you. It can be scary, esp if it's been a while. Sort of like being an adolescent again. Take a deep breath, be confident and fake it til you make it!