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wannabmilf

Hello.....a friend of mine introduced me to this site. I am in need of losing baby weight from 3 children. My middle child passed away and life changed for both myself and my husband. We became very unhealthy eaters and the depression didn't help either. I'm trying to get motivated to lose the weight and be healthy for my children. Any support and motivation would be greatly appreciated.

SteelersfanChris

Hey, welcome :-) You'll like it here, the people are great. I'm defenitely up for it if you ever need some encouragement

weidner

Welcome - this is a great site and a site that will help you with weight loss and just about everything else as well, the people on this site are great and you will find that you will get great sound advice!!!! Add me as a friend if you would like - it is great all the people on here that I have become friends with!!!!!!

BrenNew

Hello.....a friend of mine introduced me to this site. I am in need of losing baby weight from 3 children. My middle child passed away and life changed for both myself and my husband. We became very unhealthy eaters and the depression didn't help either. I'm trying to get motivated to lose the weight and be healthy for my children. Any support and motivation would be greatly appreciated.

Hi, and welcome to THE best site on the web! :flowerforyou:
I am soooooooo sorry about your loss! I can't even imagine what you've gone through. Losing a child has just GOT to be about the worst thing ever!

Anyway though, between the easy to use food counter (which by the way is SUCH an eye opener!) and all the wonderfully supportive members, you WILL be able to lose the weight that you want to, AND, it'll "almost" be easy doing it!
I recommend logging ALL your foods BEFORE you have them, rather than later, as it tends to lead to better food choices. (not to mention you'll know if you've got enough numbers left to have a night time snack, like I ALWAYS try to do!) Some people also like to weigh and measure some things, such as meats, rather than just estimating and possibly being WAY off! :noway:
Don't go making the mistake that if you have LOTS of numbers left at the end of the day that you'll lose even faster, because that DOESN'T happen. Feel free to read any info about the site in the "help" section at the top of the home page. And also under "Community", then "Weight Loss and Healthy Living", then "general diet and weight loss help", and then check out the first few threads. They'll REALLY help you understand how MFP works.
Before coming here, I had tried just about EVERYTHING out there, including hypnosis, TWICE, and nothing really worked until MFP!
Just the word "diet" would make me cringe and set me up for failure. :grumble: It meant depriving myself of all the "good stuff" out there, and as a result, I'd only last just so long, (maybe a few weeks if I was lucky!) and then I'd "cave" and go right back to eating all those "goodies" again! :embarrassed: But, MFP ISN'T a "diet". :noway: It's a "lifestyle change". (When I first read that, I said "Ya, SURE it is!", thinking that it WAS just another diet. :grumble: But, it wasn't! :noway:)
The main reason that I've managed to lose the weight that I wanted to is because I HAVE been able to eat "real/good" foods. :bigsmile: (Not Slim Fast or any other easy, quick, fad "wacko" diets!:noway: ) Through MFP I learned that I just needed to "work for it", through exercise, and watching my numbers (MOST of the time! ) As long as I do that, I CAN occasionally have stuff like Chinese food, a double cheeseburger, pizza, and even homemade ice-cream!
As far as exercise goes, it doesn't always have to be awful. :noway: For my exercise, I walk almost every day, (weather permitting! ) I also dance to a fast oldies CD that my husband made up of all my favorite old songs. (Like "Love Shack", Wild, Wild West", "Mony, Mony", "Footloose", and "Gloria") :happy:
It's free, (unlike a gym!:grumble: ) fun, and I can even watch tv at the same time, so I never get bored! :happy:
I also have Wii Fit, and jog to that, which is a lot of fun, and easy too!
So, to make a LONG story short, make good food choices, eat in moderation, get some exercise, and you WILL lose the weight that you want to!
MFP REALLY, REALLY, DOES work! :happy: Give it a chance, and it WILL work for you too!

Edestiny7

Welcome! I am sorry to hear about your loss. I am glad you are here to help yourself and your family. This is a great site with lots of great people.