what's going on in his mind?

peacek
peacek Posts: 211
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I know this is not the place to ask this question. But, I am so sad right now and need to know what goes on in a guy's mind.
We know each other for 6 months. Last month he wrote an email everyday and told me how much loves me and misses me.
We speak everyday.
Suddenly, he cut every communication- all of it.
I tried reaching him but of no use. Finally, I met him face to face and told him we need not do this if he doesn't feel right.
All he said is he doesn't deserve me and that's it.

I stopped all communication with him, but cannot stop thinking about him even for a second.
Will he ever talk to me again? Will he ever come back? How long will it take for him to realize we cannot go on forever without talking?
Guys....what's on his mind?
Sorry for the wrong place to post again- i am just so sad.
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  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    He found someone else.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    His other girlfriend caught him.
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    You should probably show up at his house with various baked goods and tell him how much you adore his presence. Sometimes a guy just wants to feel loved. And there's no better way to show love than showing up unexpectedly with overwhelming expressions of love.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
    He found someone else.

    He found someone else who will do the things you wont do.
  • Reedern
    Reedern Posts: 525 Member
    He found someone else.
    I agree with this.... most likely there is someone else and he is not man enough to tell you that and give you closure. Have a few stiff drinks, buck up, and find someone better!
  • peacek
    peacek Posts: 211
    That's it? He will never come back?
  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    That's it? He will never come back?
    You're 28. This isn't high school...Wtf?
  • peacek
    peacek Posts: 211
    That's it? He will never come back?
    You're 28. This isn't high school...Wtf?
    OK, thanks. I am already sad, please don't yell at me now.
  • __stacyb
    __stacyb Posts: 306
    That's it? He will never come back?
    Only if things don't work out with the other women, move on don't wait around to be his option.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
    That's it? He will never come back?


    You seem like a beautiful young lady. Why settle for someone who obviously isn't man enough to tell you his true feelings. Move on. You deserve better. Value yourself more.
  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    That's it? He will never come back?
    You're 28. This isn't high school...Wtf?
    OK, thanks. I am already sad, please don't yell at me now.
    You're trolling right?
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    That's it? He will never come back?
    You're 28. This isn't high school...Wtf?
    OK, thanks. I am already sad, please don't yell at me now.

    Maybe try submitting to him like that. Then maybe he'll want you back. It can't hurt.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    duh, his wife found his email account.
  • Greenrun99
    Greenrun99 Posts: 2,065 Member

    Will he ever talk to me again? Will he ever come back? How long will it take for him to realize we cannot go on forever without talking?

    If he cut off communications and is blowing you off, its done.. and if you guys don't work together or live next door there is no need to talk anymore.. I don't talk to ANY of my Ex's.. I just don't play the bf - friend role.. I move on.. no need for all that drama.
  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    Have you tried sending him naked pictures with bacon somewhere in the pic? This would win me over.
  • jess7386
    jess7386 Posts: 477 Member
    OP, your posts say you are married??.....
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    OP, your posts say you are married??.....

    Nothing wrong with dippin' on the side.
  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    OP, your posts say you are married??.....

    Nothing wrong with dippin' on the side.
    BRO, this is why I will be forever alone. :(
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Either he's bored of you, has other things occupying his mind (work, other women etc) or he's having a crisis.
  • Haku_Assassin
    Haku_Assassin Posts: 27 Member
    hbk4O.gif

    He's eating someone else's taco.
  • peacek
    peacek Posts: 211
    wish I was just trolling and none of this ever happened. I can only hope I will get over this sooner than later.
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    OP, your posts say you are married??.....

    Nothing wrong with dippin' on the side.
    BRO, this is why I will be forever alone. :(

    I can teach you how to side dip, man. It's always better when you can boot them out in the morning.
  • 2credneck208
    2credneck208 Posts: 501 Member
    I had the same thing happen with my high school sweetheart. I would run into him around town and we had our 90210 nights but you just have to move on. He's an *kitten* and you deserve better. You will find someone better I promise. Chin up!!!
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    wish I was just trolling and none of this ever happened. I can only hope I will get over this sooner than later.

    Alcohol is a friend at times like this.
  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    I can teach you how to side dip, man. It's always better when you can boot them out in the morning.
    I rather be one vagina kind of man.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    wish I was just trolling and none of this ever happened. I can only hope I will get over this sooner than later.

    Alcohol is a friend at times like this.
    Alcohol and bad decisions!:drinker:
  • n2thenight24
    n2thenight24 Posts: 1,651 Member
    Have you tried sending him naked pictures with bacon somewhere in the pic? This would win me over.

    Sent.
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    wish I was just trolling and none of this ever happened. I can only hope I will get over this sooner than later.

    Alcohol is a friend at times like this.
    Alcohol and bad decisions!:drinker:

    Gotta love some bad decisions.
  • ericmessier
    ericmessier Posts: 235 Member
    Have you tried sending him naked pictures with bacon somewhere in the pic? This would win me over.

    Sent.
    :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick:
  • peacek
    peacek Posts: 211
    OP, your posts say you are married??.....
    what???????? where?

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