will it happen eventually?

smelmel

Hi, If anyone can help it is very appreciated!
After my first baby I started logging on here and by the end became a bit obbesive and there were comments of being too skinny. Then I had another baby and put on 20kg and now lost 15 but now I'm at the same weight were I platued last time I would like to lose maybe 3 more kgs but I'm scared of having that unhealthy relationship with food again, I limit myself to 40mins cardio 6 days and I was just wondering if I do just stick to what has lost me the first 15 kgs does it just take longer because I'm smaller now, will it come off eventually? Do you have to be obbesive to be lean?
thanks