Starting to look too bulky

I've been steadily working out for 8 months or so, I've lost a lot of weight but gained back in muscle. I still have about 10 pounds of extra fat, and now I'm up about 10 pounds of muscle. Instead of looking lean and fit like I wanted, The extra fat on top of my new muscle makes me look really bulky. Strong, but bulky.
I want the muscle, so I want to continue lifting but do you think I should cut it back and up my cardio? Or just do cardio and light weights for while? Cut weights completely until I lose this weight?
I do about 30-45 mins of cardio every weekday right now.
I appreciate any suggestions.
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  • marypatmccue
    marypatmccue Posts: 521 Member
    Hey. I just profile creeped you -- If that's a recent picture of you at 142, I don't see that you look "bulky" girl! I also looked at your diary. Not sure what you're actually eating, because it looks like you only logged yesterday and a little today. But -- if yesterday is true... I'm going to give the unpopular response that, you CANNOT gain muscle eating at that much of a deficit. In order to GAIN muscle, you have to eat at a surplus, and train hard for it. Even people that WANT to gain muscle have a hard time doing it.

    If you'd like help, and you want fat loss, I'll help you out. I'm part of the roadmap. I eat between 1600-2000 calories every day. I'm losing steady and feeling great.

    Let me know.
  • Mist1981
    Mist1981 Posts: 145
    I looked at your pictures, and I didn't think you are bulky AT ALL!! Are those recent pictures? I agree that you are not going to bulk up eating 900 calories per day either! Is that your norm?
  • Hey. I just profile creeped you -- If that's a recent picture of you at 142, I don't see that you look "bulky" girl! I also looked at your diary. Not sure what you're actually eating, because it looks like you only logged yesterday and a little today. But -- if yesterday is true... I'm going to give the unpopular response that, you CANNOT gain muscle eating at that much of a deficit. In order to GAIN muscle, you have to eat at a surplus, and train hard for it. Even people that WANT to gain muscle have a hard time doing it.

    If you'd like help, and you want fat loss, I'll help you out. I'm part of the roadmap. I eat between 1600-2000 calories every day. I'm losing steady and feeling great.

    Let me know.

    I've gained about 5lbs since then, all in my arms and middle. Which isn't a lot, but I don't look as lean as I did there. I'm kind of short, so I feel like any amount of gain makes me look stout.
    I am terrible at logging all of my food, yesterday I stopped logging after lunch. I usually eat around 1700.
    Thanks for the input!
  • I looked at your pictures, and I didn't think you are bulky AT ALL!! Are those recent pictures? I agree that you are not going to bulk up eating 900 calories per day either! Is that your norm?

    no, no, no. Not at all. I eat around 1700 everyday. I just need to get better at logging lol
    I've gained about 5 lbs since that picture and I feel like I look 10lbs heavier!
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    Not buying it.
  • vals83
    vals83 Posts: 63 Member
    Cutting weights is the worst thing you could do. Having muscle will keep your metabolism going. Up your cardio and cut your carbs and up your protein. That'll rid the fat and keep your tone.
  • sarahstrezo
    sarahstrezo Posts: 568 Member
    Yeah...there is no way you are actually putting on new muscle weight. Not possible eating at a deficit. You also don't look bulky in the slightest in the pics on your profile.

    Have you figured out your TDEE?

    Also...if you aren't logging everything you eat, how do you know what it is you are eating and what amounts??
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
    Not buying it.
  • toomuchbootyindapants
    toomuchbootyindapants Posts: 811 Member
    wahhhh so bulky. Puhlease. Show me this "bulk."
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Think of it this way... if you never did exercise, just lived your life, the size of your muscles would be exactly what your body requires to lift your arms and move your legs. They wouldn't grow, they wouldn't shrink.

    Right now your muscles are responding the the weight you've been lifting. If you keep lifting and maintain or slightly lower the weight, your muscles will not grow anymore. This is called lifting to maintain, and if you want to keep what you've developed you're going to have to continue lifting, albeit without increasing the weight over time. Don't stop lifting, it's helping with your health and maintaining your strength as well. Those are also very important.
  • marypatmccue
    marypatmccue Posts: 521 Member
    I just wanted to say... for the record... I don't buy it either. BUT... I ain't gonna be accused of bullyin' today! Yesterday I was mean and heartless apparently. Today, I aim to be helpful.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Yeah...there is no way you are actually putting on new muscle weight. Not possible eating at a deficit. You also don't look bulky in the slightest in the pics on your profile.

    Have you figured out your TDEE?

    Also...if you aren't logging everything you eat, how do you know what it is you are eating and what amounts??

    This isn't 100% true, I just cut for 18 lbs over 11 weeks and my arms and back have built up, though very slowly. You can build muscle while dieting, it's just a grind compared to when you're eating excess cal.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    more pics please.

    we all doubt you are bulky.

    preferably in a bathing suit.

    i bet you look great.
  • vals83
    vals83 Posts: 63 Member
    @the_dizzle LOL! YES!!!! :bigsmile: Bad @ss!
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    Define bulky? Based on the pics in your profile, you don't even look athletic let alone bulky. This isn't an insult; I'm just trying to give my perspective. When you say bulky, are you just referring to the size of your body? Usually when you hear people complaining of bulk, they're referring to having a muscular look, which you don't have in your pictures. I dunno, I guess I'm over thinking it but I'm not sure what you're seeing when you look in the mirror because in your pictures you look thin with room to cut your body fat %.
  • Yesterday I was mean and heartless apparently.

    The plot thickens...
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    more pics please.

    we all doubt you are bulky.

    preferably in a bathing suit.

    i bet you look great.

    This^^
  • sarahstrezo
    sarahstrezo Posts: 568 Member
    Yeah...there is no way you are actually putting on new muscle weight. Not possible eating at a deficit. You also don't look bulky in the slightest in the pics on your profile.

    Have you figured out your TDEE?

    Also...if you aren't logging everything you eat, how do you know what it is you are eating and what amounts??

    This isn't 100% true, I just cut for 18 lbs over 11 weeks and my arms and back have built up, though very slowly. You can build muscle while dieting, it's just a grind compared to when you're eating excess cal.

    Ok...technically you are correct, I guess. My point was...she's claiming she's put on 10lbs of muscles in 8 months of eating 1700 cals. No way.
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
    No offense, but I see no bulk.
  • vals83
    vals83 Posts: 63 Member
    Agreed. No offense, but after looking at the pics I see no muscle tone. I assume these are old pictures?
    Define bulky? Based on the pics in your profile, you don't even look athletic let alone bulky. This isn't an insult; I'm just trying to give my perspective. When you say bulky, are you just referring to the size of your body? Usually when you hear people complaining of bulk, they're referring to having a muscular look, which you don't have in your pictures. I dunno, I guess I'm over thinking it but I'm not sure what you're seeing when you look in the mirror because in your pictures you look thin with room to cut your body fat %.
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    Define bulky? Based on the pics in your profile, you don't even look athletic let alone bulky. This isn't an insult; I'm just trying to give my perspective. When you say bulky, are you just referring to the size of your body? Usually when you hear people complaining of bulk, they're referring to having a muscular look, which you don't have in your pictures. I dunno, I guess I'm over thinking it but I'm not sure what you're seeing when you look in the mirror because in your pictures you look thin with room to cut your body fat %.

    I agree 100%.
  • Lupercalia
    Lupercalia Posts: 1,857 Member
    Not buying it.

    I don't see how that would be possible, either. Perhaps you are some sort of very special superhuman? If so, doctors should definitely be alerted because many people will be eager to study you and write papers about how a woman can gain 10 lbs of muscle on 900-1700 calories per day.

    I have to agree with the person who said you don't really even look "athletic". You look very soft, to me. I don't mean that in a bad way...just that your body fat % is higher than what one usually sees on an athletic person--well beyond where you can actually see much in the way of muscle definition, so I don't understand where the "bulky" thing is coming from at all. Do you mean your body fat % is beyond what you want it to be? You can sort that out by continuing to lift, eating at a caloric deficit, and perhaps doing a bit of HIIT here and there.
  • hfester
    hfester Posts: 114 Member
    Well, I suppose it's up to you to judge if you're looking/feeling too bulky, so I'm not sure why your choice of words has everyone riled up.

    ...Anyway, have you considered researching how gymnasts or maybe wrestlers train and eat? They are typically high in muscle mass and low in body fat. Just an idea. Good luck!
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
    I've been steadily working out for 8 months or so, I've lost a lot of weight but gained back in muscle. I still have about 10 pounds of extra fat, and now I'm up about 10 pounds of muscle. Instead of looking lean and fit like I wanted, The extra fat on top of my new muscle makes me look really bulky. Strong, but bulky.
    I want the muscle, so I want to continue lifting but do you think I should cut it back and up my cardio? Or just do cardio and light weights for while? Cut weights completely until I lose this weight?
    I do about 30-45 mins of cardio every weekday right now.
    I appreciate any suggestions.

    You need to lose some fat to get that lean look. You're looking bulkier because you're gaining weight.
  • ichorica
    ichorica Posts: 475 Member
    Perhaps an explanation of bulky is needed. Maybe your definition is different from others. I don't really see any pictures of your whole body just your midsection.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
    I'm up about 10 pounds of muscle.

    The extra fat on top of my new muscle makes me look really bulky.

    Guys, it's not the muscle that's making her look bulky. It's 10 pounds of extra body mass.
    I want the muscle, so I want to continue lifting but do you think I should cut it back and up my cardio? Or just do cardio and light weights for while? Cut weights completely until I lose this weight?
    I do about 30-45 mins of cardio every weekday right now.
    I appreciate any suggestions.

    You want the muscle. You don't want the fat.

    Therefore, run a calorie deficit and continue lifting weights. Keep the muscle and get rid of the fat. Boom, lean.
  • VorJoshigan
    VorJoshigan Posts: 1,106 Member
    I would like to see better pictures, but I would say that you're looking neither bulky nor stout.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,026 Member
    This isn't 100% true, I just cut for 18 lbs over 11 weeks and my arms and back have built up, though very slowly. You can build muscle while dieting, it's just a grind compared to when you're eating excess cal.
    Broscience. Unless you're one of the exceptions (returning athlete after long layoff, very overweight/obese, newbie who's never lifted before) the probability of building muscle of any significance is pretty nil. You don't build muscle reducing calories. Muscle is mass. To ADD mass you surplus.
    Do your arms and back LOOK better? Probably because there's less fat on them giving the appearance of more muscularity, but that doesn't mean you built it back up (unless you increased your calories after cutting).

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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,026 Member
    To the OP, you're still just at a high body fat range. Continue lifting and burn more calories off to reduce the fat.

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  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    So you think you GAINED 10 pounds of muscle? How do you know this?