I think he is cheating on me.
I met my special guy about five years ago. I like to think it was love at first sight...and I thought he felt the same way. We spent all of our time together. I always made him his favorite food, he loved my cooking. My favorite was just cuddling on the couch watching TV. I have never been so happy curling up with someone and just relaxing.
But lately, things have changed. I make him dinner and he doesn't eat...yet he is gaining weight. He goes outside and disappears for hours. He sits on the other end of the couch instead of next to me....that just broke my heart. That was always "our time".
I just don't know what to do. I just can't bring myself to follow him to see what he is doing...I am too afraid of what I might find out. Even if there is someone else I dont know if I could kick him out. I mean, as silly as it seems, I love that darn cat even thought he is breaking my heart.
But lately, things have changed. I make him dinner and he doesn't eat...yet he is gaining weight. He goes outside and disappears for hours. He sits on the other end of the couch instead of next to me....that just broke my heart. That was always "our time".
I just don't know what to do. I just can't bring myself to follow him to see what he is doing...I am too afraid of what I might find out. Even if there is someone else I dont know if I could kick him out. I mean, as silly as it seems, I love that darn cat even thought he is breaking my heart.
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Buy a dog and be happy. That is all.0
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No get a cat---Oh then get another cat... or a bird0
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My dog would never do something like this to me. They are not sneaky or deceitful like those dirty cats......0
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Maybe the new lovey dovey feeling is wearing off and he's starting to feel comfortable. Don't jump to conclusions ask him.0
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hes just not that into you, boo0
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You tricked me so hard.0
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Take it from me..... If you think he is..... HE MOST DEFINITELY IS!!!
It is nobody's fault but your own should you choose to stay with the SOB!!!
Live day in and day out heartbroken or kick him to the curb and get on with your life with someone
who DESERVES YOU!!!!! PERIOD!!!!0 -
You can win back his affection:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/113695483/prissy-hissy-panties-catnip-toycat-treat0 -
Take it from me..... If you think he is..... HE MOST DEFINITELY IS!!!
It is nobody's fault but your own should you choose to stay with the SOB!!!
Live day in and day out heartbroken or kick him to the curb and get on with your life with someone
who DESERVES YOU!!!!! PERIOD!!!!
Yeah!0 -
@ Scattered he meows haha0
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Maybe the new lovey dovey feeling is wearing off and he's starting to feel comfortable. Don't jump to conclusions ask him.
when I ask him, he just ignores me and walks away!0 -
give him some whiskas that will open him up0
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Wondering and worrying is going to make you sick. I would rather know (by asking him point blank, not spying) and deal with the results. If he is cheating on you, you need to ask, are you better off with him or without him. Depending on that answer, you may choose counseling or kick him to the curb. You are a special person and you deserve a decent relationship.0
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Sounds like he might be catting around. If he wont communicate with you don't *****foot around with this....follow him.0
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just break up0
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You know what you need to do to win back his affections...0
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You know what you need to do to win back his affections...
Yeah.....can of tuna0 -
Have you considered hitting him with a rolled up newspaper or taking away his toys?0
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That - or is he neutered?0
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Try going into denial. It works for me.0
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