Break Up Advice Needed!

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  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    there's NOTHING hard about this..."its just not working for me"....done. Why make it complicated?

    hey avril lavigne, go back to chad kroegers bed

    I have no idea what the fugg you mean, broski.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    How old is he? His comments reminded me of my first boyfriend many moons ago.
    I'm concerned that he wants to marry you after only being together in person for a few weeks before deployment and saying that he needs you and you're the only one keeping him sane.
    To me, those are red flags that he could be possessive and controlling.
    Be straight forward and nice to end it and then move on.
    I am doubting he would want just friendship, but I don't know him or his side of the story.
  • candymara
    candymara Posts: 49
    I have been dumped 3 times by men I thought I was in love with. The only time I "resent" or feel bad about now was #3 who had doubts for months before finally cheating on me then breaking up with me while ridden with guilt. I couldn't believe he had put on this pretend act for my benefit (which didn't benefit me at all) for "months" before letting me go. Ultimately, I met the man of my dreams (my husband) years later and now I'm happy as can be. He wasn't the one, obviously. I just wish he hadn't strung me along.

    My advice is to end it quickly but tactfully- let him know exactly what you told us here, that you care for him deeply as a friend but you can't continue a romantic relationship with him. The more you wait, the more wrong it gets.

    Best of luck!

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