Didn't really know where to put this...Need advice.

SweetLove1988
SweetLove1988 Posts: 353 Member
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  • maqsmj
    maqsmj Posts: 697
    tell him to get a job anywhere and help with the home
  • jessicae1aine
    jessicae1aine Posts: 885
    Tell your brother, on no uncertain terms, that he has to go get a job - even if it's a McJob or something - and has to contribute, and that there won't be any smoking in your house anymore because it's your and your fiance's house, and you've chosen to quit.

    Is there a reason you're not working?
  • OMGeeeHorses
    OMGeeeHorses Posts: 732 Member
    two things, you both could get a job? ( unless your disabled and so on) and second your relationship won't get any better with your fiancee with your brother living with you. I mean you have 1 stress with the sewer, you don't need another. Why can't he stay with his friends or your parents or someone else that seems to be his more "important" out look at this time.
  • SweetLove1988
    SweetLove1988 Posts: 353 Member
    Tell your brother, on no uncertain terms, that he has to go get a job - even if it's a McJob or something - and has to contribute, and that there won't be any smoking in your house anymore because it's your and your fiance's house, and you've chosen to quit.

    Is there a reason you're not working?


    I have Crohn's disease and I'm in the hospital and at the doctors a lot. Makes it hard to get a job. He doesn't smoke inside, and he has been looking for a job but he doesn't seem to be trying as hard as he should. He has a history of making bad decisions that's what scares me.
  • SweetLove1988
    SweetLove1988 Posts: 353 Member
    two things, you both could get a job? ( unless your disabled and so on) and second your relationship won't get any better with your fiancee with your brother living with you. I mean you have 1 stress with the sewer, you don't need another. Why can't he stay with his friends or your parents or someone else that seems to be his more "important" out look at this time.

    I would love to get a job but I am always sick with my Crohn's. My parents wont allow him back at home because he done something things wrong and I'm not sure about his friends. I could ask.
  • jessicae1aine
    jessicae1aine Posts: 885
    Is it possible for you to take him places and make sure he's applying, or find him another family member he can stay with?

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