I hate being fat, i'm close to giving up!

Bekahmardis

if you want to be fit, then be fit. you can't choose to stop being fat, but you can choose what goes in your mouth and how much you move.

Bingo. 'nuff said.

bearkisses

everyone saying that this is like ed behaviour

and then saying she looks amazing

way to reinforce her guys!!

mkwongh

QUOTE FROM YOUR PROFILE: "Better Sore Than Sorry"
remember why you started

whierd

everyone saying that this is like ed behaviour

and then saying she looks amazing

way to reinforce her guys!!

:huh:

HopefulLeigh

You do look amazing. I went ahead and did the math from kg to lbs for my poor American brain. No, it's probably not a good idea to try to lose 20 pounds in one month. This is a process, not a race. Yes, you look fantastic. However if you feel like you would prefer to be 123 pounds instead of 143 pounds at 5'1, that's healthy too. It's certainly not grounds for the comments about eating disorders.

If you hate being fat, don't give up. Giving up does not fix the problem. It takes hard work and dedication. Best of luck to you.

StArBeLLa87

everyone saying that this is like ed behaviour

and then saying she looks amazing

way to reinforce her guys!!

It is in away not trying to be mean she just is being unrealistic 22lbs she wants to lose maybe 10 at most would be more realistic it just saddens me really how low she feels she is beautiful I wish I had her body it takes time I know but the can't and giving up is a frame of mind and people don't understand that your mind is more powerful then you think I know this by experience ugh.

HopefulLeigh

everyone saying that this is like ed behaviour

and then saying she looks amazing

way to reinforce her guys!!

:huh:

People are commenting that her behavior makes it sound like she's got or is headed toward an eating disorder and then follow it with "You look amazing". If she had an eating disorder, this would reinforce the belief that what she's doing is only making her look better.

Not that she has one, because there's genuinely no where near enough to say she does. She's just asking if it's possible to lose a large amount of weight in a short time. We're in an age of instant gratification. It's not really that odd.

Oishii

Fast weight loss is seldom long-lasting. Take it slower to increase your chances of keeping it off for longer.