Mums Who Leave Like Dads

Dexy_
Dexy_ Posts: 593 Member
edited January 22 in Chit-Chat
When a relationship ends and kids are involved, generally the father leaves the home and sees the children on weekends/afternoons etc. But I'm interested in peoples opinion on when it's the mother who leaves but still sees her children regularly? It that better/worse/the same?

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  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    I have nothing to add to this, but I think I will be interested in reading the replies...
  • Dexy_
    Dexy_ Posts: 593 Member
    I suppose that's if there is going to be any... Haha.
  • lovelyMYlovely
    lovelyMYlovely Posts: 1,066 Member
    as a mother of 2 i would NEVER be the one to leave my family... i WOULD leave and take the kids with me lol... but i have met some fathers who have either 50/50 custody or have almost full custody... usually the mother has all the rights UNLESS she is abusing drugs/alcohol or has some mental condition... or has a history of violence...

    i actually do not approve of women leaving the kids but it does happen... because the mothers are not ready for the responsibility.. and actually sometimes the father does raise the children better especially if the women is self destructive... so it depends on the situation...

    but in most cases women do leave but take the children... if they do not take the children then they will most likely lose full custody...
  • Dexy_
    Dexy_ Posts: 593 Member
    I jut don't see why. Men get to leave, and I they still see their kids 2-3+ days a week they're praised as a great dad. If a woman does the same, suddenly she's the devil? I don't understand why. Just because you're a woman, it doesn't make you the better parent.
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