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GRose

This is for those who responded to my previous post........

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/97378-i-really-need-some-opinions?hl=opinion#posts-1346731


He responded. Last Friday! He's coming over on Thursday & I'm freaking out. What do I say? What do I even want to say? I just want a relationship with him. I want to be able to see him/call him/whatever... Say hi. Smile.

The place is a mess - we finally moved everything from storage into our apartment - and there is SO much to do... Ugh. I requested the day off of work - it's been approved (thank "Bob" - anyone ever watch Rugrats??).

Thanks to all of you for your support. Pray that I don't stress too much this week. I need to stay focused - Eat Healthy, take walks... Clean, Unpack, Organize. BE HEALTHY (no binge eating like I normally do when I'm stressed).

HealthyChanges2010

:flowerforyou:

weaklink109

I read your previous post. I am glad your attempt at contact has received a response. Your dad is coming to see YOU, not your housekeeping. Do what you can, but don't stress over what doesn't get done. When you are old and grey, I am willing to bet one of the things you WON'T be saying is "I wish I had spent more time on housework.":flowerforyou:

What do you say.? Well, only you know that, but here are some ideas. Let him know you regret the years that have passed without him in your life, and that you are glad he is there because you would like to move forward and have him in your life and vice versa.

He probably has similar thoughts or he wouldn't have agreed to visit. Good luck!!

Laceylala

Awesome!

mommared53

I think you should just tell him what you said in your post. That you want to have a relationship with him and to see him and call him, etc. I hope everything goes well. Let us know how it goes. And breathe. (((smanning2007)))