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How do I get this guy? Repost fixed
the_britster
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I couldn't figure out how to delete the old one. Here it is in paragraphs edited a bit.
There is this guy who is super great. He is so kind. He has a great sense of humor. He dresses nice. He has the most amazing smile. He plays the guitar. He sings. He's in a band! He had a small benefit concert back on Valentine's Day. I came up to him afterwards and told him how amazing at playing the guitar he was. Then I slipped him my number. He never called and I didn't see him forever.
Then one day I realized he was in one of my classes. I was super nervous when I found out and the next day my teacher changes the seating chart and he was right across from me. He will say flirty little things sometimes, but then again I don't know if he just says it to every girl in proximity, although he looks at me when he says it.
Prom was coming up and I wanted him to ask me. So I kept trying to get my friend to talk to him. She would always miss him. Then one day I'm in class and a girl behind me asked if I was going to prom and I said I hadn't been asked. She said It was really surprising and blurts out "Hey (insert name)! you should ask Britney to Prom!" I let out a nervous laugh along with him. After he says "Just put me on the spot like that! I can't. I'm going to be out of town."
And when we had debates in class I made comments that really stumped him and made jokes about it afterwards. Then when it was my turn, he made a comment that really helped my side because we were getting creamed by the conservatives. Afterwards this other girl that was on the opposing team made a comment about how I quietly said thank you (insert name). She always butts in and sometimes I think they have a thing. Other times when he totally ignores her I think not. Anyways, that same day in class he tells me that he is having ANOTHER benefit concert at lunch and that I should come. He completely directed it at me and told no one else. Seemed obvious enough to me. So I show up and am like the first one there and they aren't even playing yet. I feel really awkward and wander a bit. Then I end up watching the door because the concert is to benefit journalism and I'm on the team, because the teacher needed to get something to collect money in. Guess who comes out. HIM! He seemed very excited to have me there. Then he says something like " So door monitor?" and after explaining he says "sick" a few times in response.
He goes back in and then my teacher comes back. I go and sit in the front row and watch him set up. I start feeling very uncomfortable. Then people start showing up. I only got to hear three songs cause he waited to long to start. This is when I realize I really like this guy. I wave to him on the way out and he smiles really big and waves back. I try to leave because I was running late for my internship, but I just couldn't. I walked cooling back in when up the same steps as February, and approached him. When he saw me he smiled really big and Said, "Heeyy!" He was talking to a group of people including my teacher, talking about publicity. I made a suggestion. people responded, bla bla bla.
I finally had him to myself! Then I directly addressed him and asked, "so you are going to be out of town for prom right?" He said yeah, disappointedly. Then I asked, "Well, do you want to go to spring fling with me?" He smiled really big, looked down a teeny bit and exclaimed, "yeah, sick!" I said we would talk about it next class. It was a Friday. I had all weekend to over think everything.
I saw him on a B day (my school splits the schedule) and he didn't even smile at me. weird. Then the next day in class and he seemed nervous when he told me he couldn't go to the dance because he was going to be out of town and kept going on about how sorry he was. He said he was going to be out of town a lot because of mothers day and his brother's b-day. It seems weird but their rich. Also, I had my friend make sure he was out of town and he was. I asked him about it and he had plenty to talk about.
I have felt discouraged ever sense. Before this I was sure he liked me too, but I'm not so sure anymore and I feel like I'm out of his league. He smiles and waves in the halls and continues his little convos in class. I don't know what to do! Do you think he likes me? I want to hang out with him and I'm lost. Please help!
There is this guy who is super great. He is so kind. He has a great sense of humor. He dresses nice. He has the most amazing smile. He plays the guitar. He sings. He's in a band! He had a small benefit concert back on Valentine's Day. I came up to him afterwards and told him how amazing at playing the guitar he was. Then I slipped him my number. He never called and I didn't see him forever.
Then one day I realized he was in one of my classes. I was super nervous when I found out and the next day my teacher changes the seating chart and he was right across from me. He will say flirty little things sometimes, but then again I don't know if he just says it to every girl in proximity, although he looks at me when he says it.
Prom was coming up and I wanted him to ask me. So I kept trying to get my friend to talk to him. She would always miss him. Then one day I'm in class and a girl behind me asked if I was going to prom and I said I hadn't been asked. She said It was really surprising and blurts out "Hey (insert name)! you should ask Britney to Prom!" I let out a nervous laugh along with him. After he says "Just put me on the spot like that! I can't. I'm going to be out of town."
And when we had debates in class I made comments that really stumped him and made jokes about it afterwards. Then when it was my turn, he made a comment that really helped my side because we were getting creamed by the conservatives. Afterwards this other girl that was on the opposing team made a comment about how I quietly said thank you (insert name). She always butts in and sometimes I think they have a thing. Other times when he totally ignores her I think not. Anyways, that same day in class he tells me that he is having ANOTHER benefit concert at lunch and that I should come. He completely directed it at me and told no one else. Seemed obvious enough to me. So I show up and am like the first one there and they aren't even playing yet. I feel really awkward and wander a bit. Then I end up watching the door because the concert is to benefit journalism and I'm on the team, because the teacher needed to get something to collect money in. Guess who comes out. HIM! He seemed very excited to have me there. Then he says something like " So door monitor?" and after explaining he says "sick" a few times in response.
He goes back in and then my teacher comes back. I go and sit in the front row and watch him set up. I start feeling very uncomfortable. Then people start showing up. I only got to hear three songs cause he waited to long to start. This is when I realize I really like this guy. I wave to him on the way out and he smiles really big and waves back. I try to leave because I was running late for my internship, but I just couldn't. I walked cooling back in when up the same steps as February, and approached him. When he saw me he smiled really big and Said, "Heeyy!" He was talking to a group of people including my teacher, talking about publicity. I made a suggestion. people responded, bla bla bla.
I finally had him to myself! Then I directly addressed him and asked, "so you are going to be out of town for prom right?" He said yeah, disappointedly. Then I asked, "Well, do you want to go to spring fling with me?" He smiled really big, looked down a teeny bit and exclaimed, "yeah, sick!" I said we would talk about it next class. It was a Friday. I had all weekend to over think everything.
I saw him on a B day (my school splits the schedule) and he didn't even smile at me. weird. Then the next day in class and he seemed nervous when he told me he couldn't go to the dance because he was going to be out of town and kept going on about how sorry he was. He said he was going to be out of town a lot because of mothers day and his brother's b-day. It seems weird but their rich. Also, I had my friend make sure he was out of town and he was. I asked him about it and he had plenty to talk about.
I have felt discouraged ever sense. Before this I was sure he liked me too, but I'm not so sure anymore and I feel like I'm out of his league. He smiles and waves in the halls and continues his little convos in class. I don't know what to do! Do you think he likes me? I want to hang out with him and I'm lost. Please help!
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Lol0
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You slipped him your number and he didn't call......and....always has an excuse as to why he can't go out with you. Get a clue, he's just not into you.0
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I'm gonna go ahead and say he isn't into you. He didn't call you, didn't want to ask you to the dance, keeps coming up with excuses as to why he can't go with you.
As a last resort, you could ask him on a date at any time convenient for him. If he weasels out of that, you'll know for sure.0 -
He doesn't like you, but he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Take a hint. This may seem harsh, but there are lots of boys and you will meet another one who you like even more.0
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still tl;dr
Still the same answer, he DOESN'T LIKE YOU
Move on..0 -
Actually he comes across as very shy to me, offer to meet just for lunch or something not so big and get to know him like that, then you can talk without any pressure and see where things go from there0
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Oh man. He's still not into you.0
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You can't he is not interested. But some other guy maybe.0
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Paragraphs are sexy. He has to want you now!0
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Ok, I'm going to put this as simply as possible. Please forgive me if I'm crass.
He's gay.
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When you say he smiled real big, how big? Can you post a pic of someone to show how big? It sounds like he is trying to be cool, and is quite possibly batting for the other team.0
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Bill LOL0
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Honey, I would just move on. You probably don't want to hear that but your are making more out of his actions than you need to. A guy will pursue you if he is interested. If he's not, he won't.0
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I knew you had to be under 20. ;-)He's in a band!
As my friend says " Girls under 21:
"Ooh! He's in a band!"
Girls over 21:
"Oh... he's in a band..."
He's not into you.0 -
He's not into you. You're 18. You have plenty of time to find a guy that IS into you.
Move on, hun. Stop dwelling on a guy that doesn't care for you the same way you care for him.0 -
This guy isn't into you... at all. AT ALL.0
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Honey, I would just move on. You probably don't want to hear that but your are making more out of his actions than you need to. A guy will pursue you if he is interested. If he's not, he won't.
^^This.
Sorry, honey. But the good news is that you are young and beautiful, and there will be a lot of other guys that will fall for you. Have faith.0 -
Stop! He knows you like him and if he's interested he'll come to you. He hasn't so he's not - simple as that.0
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... He's banging that friend you keep sending to stalk him.
Sorry, no one else realized that? Lol.0 -
He's not interested, time to move on.0
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First of all..even with the tiny pictures MFP allows, you are one very pretty girl. And, from what you've written, it sounds as if you are smart, sensitive and well-liked.
This guy may not be ready for a pretty, smart, sensitive girl. It sounds like he's cute and playing in a band always makes someone more attractive, but maybe he's into a different type of girl...NOT a "better" girl than you, but a different type of girl (maybe that kind who also plays in a band, maybe a taller girl, or a shorter girl, or a girl who goes to another school.)
There nothing "wrong" about you, and there's nothing "better" about him. If he doesn't appreciate you, he doesn't deserve you!0 -
Like oh my god. Totally get drunk with him one night and everyone will get all slippery and the next day you'll be an item. Has high school really changed that much since I was a kid? If it has, that's just "sick".
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You slipped him your number and he didn't call......and....always has an excuse as to why he can't go out with you. Get a clue, he's just not into you.
yep0 -
I knew you had to be under 20. ;-)He's in a band!
As my friend says " Girls under 21:
"Ooh! He's in a band!"
Girls over 21:
"Oh... he's in a band..."
He's not into you.
Haha, that is so true!
Unfortunately, I agree with the majority. Move on to someone who IS interested
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