Completely at a loss

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  • tsdaughe
    tsdaughe Posts: 88
    There is a saying. Something like no matter how good she looks a guy somewhere is sick of her ****.. I have a friend dating an amazing guy and hopefully they will be married soon. His soon to be ex wife is crazy!! and it has taken almost 4 years to get divorced. Throw in his orders out of country and her contact stalling.. and it has been rough. But she is very thin and she expressed to her guy how it made her upset how small she was and he showed her the pic with this hot chick in a bikini with the saying I mentioned above.

    So thin that your bones are showing is not healthy. I would venture to guess even with you weighing more you are healthier then her. And even so, you can lose weight and get healthier and from the sounds of it her personality will always suck. Its much harder to change your personality. Don't let it sweat you. I would probably be upset if that happened to. And i would tell your friends that from now on if she posts anything towards you that you don't want to know. Its immature. Who cares. This is why I have my fiance's ex wife, my ex husband, etc blocked. I won't talk to people who fill the need to tell me what is on their pages or anything they are saying about me.. I don't want to know.

    Good luck!
  • bwalker0823
    bwalker0823 Posts: 107 Member
    There is a saying. Something like no matter how good she looks a guy somewhere is sick of her ****..

    I just learned of this recently and it's so true and it will be a constant battle because even if he does get full custody she will always be a part of our lives...but I am willing to stand by him because he is an amazing man and I have waited 27 years for him and this is just a bump in the road. She is a lunatic and always will be. That is why she is alone and living at home with no job, no money, no license, no car, and no ambition or a life. I have everything but I know the key to life-happiness :)