completely let myself go

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bbl2013t
bbl2013t Posts: 49 Member
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everytime i meet someone new and move in with them i let myself go and they encourage it, i gain a lot of weight from junk food, use drugs and alcohol dress, act, feel like a slob, stop dressing up t shirt flip flops and sweatpants,watch tv, don't shower

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  • prattiger65
    prattiger65 Posts: 1,657 Member
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    I would like to give you some advice, but I can wrap my head around having that little self respect. I think your issues go deeper than this. I suggest seeing a doctor.
  • TashaUCanDoIt
    TashaUCanDoIt Posts: 20 Member
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    I would like to give you some advice, but I can wrap my head around having that little self respect. I think your issues go deeper than this. I suggest seeing a doctor.


    ...A Psychologist! ASAP! Especially if this happens often! how many people have you lived with being so young? Maybe you need a good mentor as well... it's more than a weight issue!

    I wish you much success!
  • 5ftnFun
    5ftnFun Posts: 948 Member
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    I agree w/ "prattiger65".

    I am not sure exactly why you posted this. You made a statement, but didn't ask for advice or elaborate at all. But to disrespect your body to this degree makes me think you could benefit from professional help.
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
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    Well, to be honest, the "use drugs and alcohol" statement tells me your issues are much much different than simply weight loss.

    That's where I would start. If you can get that under control....then you know you have what it takes to get the rest under control.

    I wish you the best!
  • ohmscheeks
    ohmscheeks Posts: 840 Member
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    Is this a joke thread?
  • xxnellie146xx
    xxnellie146xx Posts: 996 Member
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    Is this a joke thread?

    I'm going with yes. If you look at OP's other posts, they have been both a girl and a guy and the posts are foolish
  • 5ftnFun
    5ftnFun Posts: 948 Member
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    Is this a joke thread?

    Looking at the OP's previous posts, I'm suspecting a troll.
  • escort9580
    escort9580 Posts: 23 Member
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    Sweetie just the fact that you say that you meet someone new and move in with them is not good. I think most women get a great sense of pride and themselves from living alone, at least for some time. I have let myself go too, sweatpants and pjs are my friends but you are making the first step by admitting that this isn't the way you want to live. I suggest you concentrate on listing your priorities and you post that somewhere highly visible. It should not be body image geared but life geared. It's great if you want to get healthier but list other things you want. Best of luck and stay positive. We all go through ups and downs.

    if this is a joke thread then shame on you.
  • MusicInMyHeart
    MusicInMyHeart Posts: 179
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    Is this a joke thread?

    Looking at the OP's previous posts, I'm suspecting a troll.

    Indeed.
  • wilmnoca
    wilmnoca Posts: 416 Member
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    *yawn*. Neeeext
  • bestbassist
    bestbassist Posts: 177 Member
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    If you're doing drugs and not able to stay thin, you are clearly doing the wrong drugs. Or not enough. :laugh:
  • willia123
    willia123 Posts: 60 Member
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    Oh that's so cute! :drinker: :indifferent:
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
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    Is this a joke thread?

    Looking at the OP's previous posts, I'm suspecting a troll.

    Indeed.

    Damnit...:explode: :explode: :explode: :explode: :explode:
  • Laura8603
    Laura8603 Posts: 590 Member
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    Is this a joke thread?

    I'm going with yes. If you look at OP's other posts, they have been both a girl and a guy and the posts are foolish

    I completely agree. The OP is completely nuts, but at least he/she, whatever it is, is entertaining.
  • seanezekiel
    seanezekiel Posts: 228 Member
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    everytime i meet someone new and move in with them i let myself go and they encourage it, i gain a lot of weight from junk food, use drugs and alcohol dress, act, feel like a slob, stop dressing up t shirt flip flops and sweatpants,watch tv, don't shower

    You should buy a horse ranch and grow tomatoes.
  • prattiger65
    prattiger65 Posts: 1,657 Member
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    Dang it!!!!!!! Tricked again.

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