Your opinions please? Men and dating

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  • justjennnie
    justjennnie Posts: 39 Member
    don't be sorry for telling him how you felt. you don't want to wonder what if- you know? anyhow, you put it out there for him. the ball is in his court now. if he doesn't feel the same, I'm sure you will find someone who really appreciates you for you!!
  • Sawjer
    Sawjer Posts: 229 Member
    Firstly, go you for putting yourself out there! Takes some courage (something I personally couldn't do)

    Just respect his decision and go with the flow for now and see what develops, he might just be going through a personal bad spot at the minute (money/ex/family/work). Dont let him see your bothered, keep the chin up!
  • Nessalee77
    Nessalee77 Posts: 78 Member
    Thanks so much to all the commenters above! You are all lovely :) I was having a real low moment this morning but I'm feeling so much better now and being able to chat to you all is a big part of that!
  • Nicolee_2014
    Nicolee_2014 Posts: 1,572 Member
    If he's truly a nice guy going through stuff he may change his mind when he's ready. Until then, keep your options open. :smile:
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member

    LOL. You botched it.

    Actually I admire a girl who has the guts to ask me out. You didn't botch it at all. The most direct route is often the best in my opinion.

    As for whether or not he's being sincere when he says he's not in 'right head space' only he knows that. This thread isn't going to give you a definitive answer. He could very well be lying because he doesn't feel the same way about you. He could also be trying to get over some tough ****.

    Bottom line: It doesn't matter. He gave you his answer. Move on.

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