how do you invite a girl to a movie but not as a date?

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  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Bring some other friends?

    no problems in that scenario. much less of a chance of misunderstanding.

    Yeah, honestly this is the only way unless you tell her you just want to be friends.
  • earthsember
    earthsember Posts: 435 Member
    I have tons of dude friends, it's never really been an issue. You said you just moved to the area and have been using stuff like meetup? How about "Gee, it's nice to finally get to meet some locals that remind me of the sort of people I was friends with back home! We should hang out sometime. I've been dying to see _______! " Just like you would any other friend.
  • L00py_T0ucan
    L00py_T0ucan Posts: 1,378 Member
    'Hey do you want to see _______ ? You don't have to worry about if there are heads in my freezer - it's not a date!!!' :tongue:
    'I don't kill my friends!' :laugh:







    :embarassed: :noway:
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    ask her to see it, but make sure you dont send out date signals like paying for her ticket, meeting with her before hand or putting her hand on your penis.

    wait a minute...its not normal to place friend's hands on my penis? no wonder so many think im interested and/or gay!!!

    I think the hand on penis is fine. The penis in the popcorn container trick crosses the line however.
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    Just ask her.
    I think us men over think things sometimes.
    Yeah you do. If someone said "I'm going to see ____, do you want to go?" I wouldn't think it was a date. If someone said "Do you want to go see a movie sometime?" I would think he was asking me out.

    this is a good idea as well since it basically says i'm going to see it anyway as opposed to i specifically want to see it with you.

    BOOM. problem solved.

    after the movie maybe you can offer to be each other's wingman
  • FatStoatLondon
    FatStoatLondon Posts: 197 Member
    Just be honest, say you would like to be friends with her and ask her if she would like to hang out sometime. We like having guy friends too and as long as you are up front and honest with her about where you stand she will appreciate it, if she chooses not to be friends with you it is her loss.

    THIS! If you try to find a code way of putting it, she might not understand (i wouldnt have understood the suggestions for phrasing it made by other posters). It might be embarrassing but the alternative is that she misunderstands, and you end up having to avoid someone you quite liked as a friend.
  • torygirl79
    torygirl79 Posts: 307 Member
    "do you want to go and see Magic Mike, I hear it has some great visuals."

    She definitely won't think you're interested in her....

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