Hey Fat Girl....

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  • Made me cry too...I stay inside on the treadmill for these very reasons...just started Day 1 Week 1 of Couch to 5K and although I couldn't even hang with Day 1 this inspires me to get back at it in the morning :) thanks

    Me neither!! Day One was HARD! So you're not alone and now neither am I!
  • Grabbing my tissues :sad: Thank you so much for sharing.
  • shell1205
    shell1205 Posts: 138
    I teared up reading this!! That was me, just yesterday. And I have to tell you, as I was doing my warmup stretches, I DID have a younger guy look at me and nod and give me a thumbs up. Very powerful stuff!! Thanks for posting this!!
  • thedeegan4
    thedeegan4 Posts: 422 Member
    That's exactly me! I am the fat girl running down the street. But you know what? I don't care. At least I'm out there doing it and one day I will be the skinny girl running down the street admirning the next "fat girl" doing the same!
  • Oh man was he talking to me? I am the one huffing and puffing to make it around the track and have my headphones on. I do however look at people but usually not. I am too busy concentrating on my next step. This spoke to my heart deeply! Thanks for posting.
  • I love this! Definitely made me tear up at work!
  • Thank you for posting this. :flowerforyou:
  • TanzaMarie
    TanzaMarie Posts: 94 Member
    So glad I read this post! I got a bit teary eyed and inspired, and not quite so frustrated with myself for my not great run this morning, huffing and puffing and what not.
  • Nogo
    Nogo Posts: 105 Member
    I love this!
  • Wow... that was very inspiring, I also got a little misty eyed at the end there.
  • lynda155
    lynda155 Posts: 112 Member
    This brought me to tears... I have been walking a 1.5 mile running track for the last month and two days ago I began to run in sprints then walk then sprints...I am that PHAT girl! :smooched: :happy:
    and I am doing it!
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    :heart:
  • Gille1sj
    Gille1sj Posts: 11
    That is awesome, I think we can all relate to this at one point or another. Loved it, thanks for sharing!! =)
  • Treesy72
    Treesy72 Posts: 230
    Wow! just lovely :)
  • jen_bd6
    jen_bd6 Posts: 501 Member
    Love this... and it's very inspirational!!!
  • spoonful
    spoonful Posts: 200 Member
    I think I'll start running more.
  • jadimasi79
    jadimasi79 Posts: 27 Member
    Needed to read this, especially on a day like today when you wonder what is the point of working out!
  • Jennvandemark
    Jennvandemark Posts: 179 Member
    Thank you OP When i am in the gym tomorrow i will look up maybe even give a little flirty smile to the guy next to me.
  • Femtec74
    Femtec74 Posts: 347 Member
    This is amazing! Thank you OP for posting!
  • CanuckTracy
    CanuckTracy Posts: 245 Member
    This is awesome!
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,031 Member
    This is a blog entry from flintland.blogspot.com.

    I am in love with this person!

    Hey, Fat Girl.


    Yes, you. The one feigning to not see me when we cross paths on the running track. The one not even wearing sports gear, breathing heavy. You’re slow, you breathe hard and your efforts at moving forward make you cringe.

    You cling shyly to the furthest corridor, sometimes making larger loops on the gravel ring by the track just so you’re not on it. You sweat so much that your hair is all wet. You rarely stay for more than 20 minutes at a time, and you look exhausted when you leave to go back home. You never talk to anyone. I’ve got something I’d like to say to you.

    You are awesome.

    If you’d look me in the eye only for an instant, you would notice the reverence and respect I have for you. The adventure you have started is tremendous; it leads to a better health, to renewed confidence and to a brand new kind of freedom. The gifts you will receive from running will far exceed the gigantic effort it takes you to show up here, to face your fears and to bravely set yourself in motion, in front of others.

    You have already begun your transformation. You no longer accept this physical state of numbness and passivity. You have taken a difficult decision, but one that holds so much promise. Every hard breath you take is actually a tad easier than the one before, and every step is ever so slightly lighter. Each push forward leaves the former person you were in your wake, creating room for an improved version, one that is stronger, healthier and forward-looking, one who knows that anything is possible.

    You’re a hero to me. And, if you’d take off the blaring headphones and put your head up for more than a second or two, you would notice that the other runners you cross, the ones that probably make you feel so inadequate, stare in awe at your determination. They, of all people, know best where you are coming from. They heard the resolutions of so many others, who vowed to pick up running and improve their health, “starting next week”. Yet, it is YOU who runs alongside, who digs from deep inside to find the strength to come here, and to come back again.

    You are a runner, and no one can take that away from you. You are relentlessly moving forward. You are stronger than even you think, and you are about to be amazed by what you can do. One day, very soon, maybe tomorrow, you’ll step outside and marvel at your capabilities. You will not believe your own body, you will realize that you can do this. And a new horizon will open up for you. You are a true inspiration.

    I bow to you.
    :flowerforyou:
  • WOW! Just WOW!

    I am that fat girl! For me it isn't running, it is Rock Star Boot Camp. I rarely look at people every morning I am there. I failed to believe that the people there working their butts off every day would ever think that way about me and my efforts. But reading this just made me realize that I am denying them the opportunity to express it. I have allowed my own fears and insecurities to block any one elses attempts at support and appreciation.

    Thank you to the person who posted this for me to read today! It was something my soul needed to read, to absorb.
  • LelaYang
    LelaYang Posts: 43
    props. what a beautifully written statement.
  • Awesome!
  • farmwife3815
    farmwife3815 Posts: 326 Member
    I am that girl. I don't run but I do ride my bike. Sometimes I feel like the world is staring at me. But you know what? Let them stare!! I am amazing and I can do this!!! Thank you for the inspiration!!!
  • gr8grl68
    gr8grl68 Posts: 417 Member
    I love this and have shared with others. Then. . . .I tried to read it to my husband and I started choking up--so handed him the laptop so he could finish reading. :heart: :sad: :heart:

    I'm not a runner (yet) but this makes me want to become one!
  • Restybaby2012
    Restybaby2012 Posts: 568 Member
    I.

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    that "fat girl"


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    but not for long
  • momjmd
    momjmd Posts: 296 Member
    This is inspiring. Whoever wrote it, thank you. As the fat girl who cringed during her C25K class and zumba, I completely get her shyness and being afraid to make eye contact. It is nice to see another perspective.
  • This brought me to tears. I love it. I am that girl. Most of us are or have been that girl. I have had people say this to me in person because I DO look people in the eye and smile. Most don't judge the fat girl (or guy) who is out there TRYING. They judge the one who doesn't care.
  • happyceliza
    happyceliza Posts: 36 Member
    Love this! Thanks for sharing