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the cost. then again, I'm a guy, very rarely do we put hidden meaning in questions. But I do know you can defuse it by just stating the cost bluntly. This will essentially push it back on them.

Thanks! LOL!

I was the one who asked the cost and was told does it matter! I just thought it was rude!

If was me who asked I was have said $20 and thought no more, also!

Oh. Ha, so I guess there really was no hidden meaning. I wouldn't worry about it, in my experience weddings make people crazy (my wife was a complete nut ball for the whole wedding month).

I'm just like you, I would have asked as well what the cost was!!!! I'm pretty forward and my friends know this, but for me being up front and open in all situations helps......no worries that way!!!:flowerforyou:

That is just rude. More people are going to have to realize that cost is an important factor for everyone. Even if you weren't using the info to decide whether or not your were going, you may need to budget that $20 or however much it is. Heck, maybe you just wanted to know so you could make sure you had the cash to cover it the day you went.