i hate men
jackeh
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So I get a call this morning from a good friend, and she says I have something to tell you ... but I am afraid to hurt your feelings... I am like ok just spit it out! So she tells me that this guy i have been seeing for maybe a month, said some rude jokes around her and her boyfriend... im like ok what did he say??? "Jackie is like a moped, youd ride her but you wouldnt want your friends to know" and "I wouldnt touch Jackie's fat *kitten* with a 10 foot pole" .... what is wrong with people????? OUCH!!
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that sucks!!
he is not worth the time of day ~ not worthy of any feelings from you!0 -
Don't give him the opportunity to touch you or see you or speak to you again. Let him wonder. Men are such jerks! I agree. And think to yourself all of the time "its his loss". Hope you have a wonderful day.0
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I was married to someone like that (note the past tense). I don't know what is wrong with people - there is no excuse for the insentitive comments. Did he really think it was funny? I'm sure he is Mr. Universe?0
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...and the award for biggest jacka$$ goes to...this loser. Do NOT waste one more moment on this guy. Don't even confront him if you haven't already. He's not worth your time.0
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That does suck! I'm sorry that you wasted even a week much less a month on someone like that (better to find out he's an *kitten* now than later). Don't say you hate men...that is not a man you described, he is a little boy. Do yourself a favor, don't even dignify what he said with a response. It's not worth it. Shake off the rude comments and vow that next time you will find yourself a gentleman not a toddler.0
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I am a very proud and self proclaimed man hater!
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Seriously though.. Eff him. Men are jerks. My ex cheated on me, I think it's because I got fat (because I am the most awesome chick around, why else would he do it?!).... soooo, now that I've lost weight.. guess what? JOKES ON HIM!! Hahaha.
Don't let it get you down.0 -
At the risk of making a comment, I just wanted to say that this guy is by no means a "man"! I know plenty of guys that have that same attitude and I feel sorry for them. As far as I am concerned their comments, as well as this guy's comments, will come back and bite him in the butt 10-fold! Gotta love karma!!!
I cannot apologize for all males, but do not let one apple ruin the bunch.0 -
I am so sorry he could be that kind of a jerk to you... Kick him to the curb and find a real guy not some little brat0
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nope, not worth your time...NEXT!
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Just remember not all men are bad! There are some really great men out there. You just did not find a great one this time!0
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what makes it even more pathetic is he's quoting lines from reality tv. what a loser.0
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At the risk of making a comment, I just wanted to say that this guy is by no means a "man"! I know plenty of guys that have that same attitude and I feel sorry for them. As far as I am concerned their comments, as well as this guy's comments, will come back and bite him in the butt 10-fold! Gotta love karma!!!
I cannot apologize for all males, but do not let one apple ruin the bunch.
Well said!!!
There ARE some good guys out there, sometimes you just have to look really really really hard! 
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Don't hate all men because of one loser. There a lot of great guys out there. My Dad always told me you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get the handsome prince. I was kissing frogs (even married one) until I was 40 when I got my handsome prince.0
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WTH???? What a loser. I agree with all the other comments; do not return one phone call or text from this loser. He is obviously not worth your time.0
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HEY! don't hate me! That guy's a ****, hate him! Or better yet, continue on and use his negativity to fuel your desire to get super sexy and then shove it in his face!
I don't care what anyone says, revenge is pretty cool! :devil:0 -
thanks guys he is deleted from my phone now!! i will not respond ... he doesnt know that i know what he said... so i will just leave it like that .. its not worth my time!!!! I mean i wasnt really emotionally attached to this guy so its not hard to blow him off... its harder to blow the comment off...
I am just sad that one or two comments like that, can actually make me feel this low... so stupid ... it bothers me way more than it ever should... you watch though i willl turn this around and he will bump into me in a year or something and be like wtf lol0 -
what makes it even more pathetic is he's quoting lines from reality tv. what a loser.
Good point - demonstrates there is no originality... how shallow.0 -
Due to censoring of curse words, I can't spew out the thought that immediately came to mind.
What I can say is he must be a low life, insecure boy to make such horrible comments about someone so wonderful. He has no idea what he's lost. You are better off without. I applaud your girlfriend for telling you the truth of the situation.
As my daughter's t-shirt reads: Best Friends are Forever, Boys are Whatever!!!0 -
I think what you really wan to say is you hate a-holes. You can't possibly hate half of the worlds population?...and there are female a-holes too.
Be thankful you have a good friend that told you about it.0 -
Be thankful it was only a month's time spent on that horses *kitten*!0
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Right now you are faced with a choice. Are you going to let that lie define you, or are you going to choose to live your life in the light of the truth.
The awful thing he said was an evil lie. So you can choose to believe it and let it haunt you or you can do what I know you will do: Live with the truth and only the truth. It's a conscious choice, and one that you might have to make 100 times a day at first, when it pops up in your head. But every time you choose to rebuke that lie it will get easier.
Do not buy into it - we have enough to deal with in life to let that kind of garbage rule the day.
The reality of it is that you were blessed with a quick discovery of his true colors. Wow. Hard to comprehend. I'm sorry that happened.0 -
obviously - He's an idiot and doesn't know how to appreciate a real woman! hm!
and I know this won't make u feel better but be happy you found out after 1 month instead of 1 year - that wud have been a disaster0 -
What a jerk.
Next time you're on the treadmill and want to quit, picture running into him. That will def. keep you going!0 -
What a jack@$$!
Glad your friend told you about it!:flowerforyou:0 -
HEY! don't hate me! That guy's a ****, hate him! Or better yet, continue on and use his negativity to fuel your desire to get super sexy and then shove it in his face!
I don't care what anyone says, revenge is pretty cool! :devil:
I freakin' LOVE revenge. I think it makes the world go 'round.0 -
Just remember not all men are bad! There are some really great men out there. You just did not find a great one this time!
This.
I so easily could have decided to hate all men after what happened with my ex, but I didn't, and I'm glad. I kept my heart open because there are good people out there, even if they are few and far between.
And this jerk certainly was not one of the good ones! I say good riddance!0 -
what a jerk!
if a guy cant see through weight to the beautiful person you are, he's not worth it! if he can't appreciate you overweight, he sure as hell doesnt deserve you skinny!! :flowerforyou:0 -
not all men are aholes...*kitten*...worthless....there are a lot of good men out here....it's not good to take a whole group of people and hate them all because of what one guy did.....it seems like this might have already happened to another group of people......black people....they sure got lumped into one whole group because of a few peoples ignorance .....maybe even the "Jews" and possibly even the American Indians....
We really shoot ourselves in the foot when we group people all together like that.....
Forgive him for what he said and dont hate all of us... others, dont join the lynch mob and have forgivness for all.....
I read a good book about forgivness one time, it was called the BIBLE....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
Intelligence is not one of that guy's strong points, so since he is that stupid, I would not give his remarks any credit at all either. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if he thinks that the only criteria for beauty is to look like a skeleton then let him date one. I know it hurts when someone is insensitive or right out rude, but I always look at the sorce, is that someone I really value? or just someone I was blindet by for a while?
So get up, brush yourself off and get back in the game of life. The blessing is, it was only a month you wasted on him and now you can look for someone who adores you and loves you JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.0 -
thanks guys he is deleted from my phone now!! i will not respond ... he doesnt know that i know what he said... so i will just leave it like that .. its not worth my time!!!! I mean i wasnt really emotionally attached to this guy so its not hard to blow him off... its harder to blow the comment off...
I am just sad that one or two comments like that, can actually make me feel this low... so stupid ... it bothers me way more than it ever should... you watch though i willl turn this around and he will bump into me in a year or something and be like wtf lol
Oh Man! Just take really good care of yourself ...when you do run into him...he will have that "look" on his face...and be like...yea the moped....sorry...can't have a ride! Then when you see his friends...let his friends now that he rode you when you were a "moped" Revenge is sweet!!!!!!0
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