How do you cope?
jenefrmthablok
Posts: 8
Over the past six months, I've done pretty well with managing stress, however, today is not one of those days. My old ways of coping would be to eat something really bad (insert comfort food), drink copious amounts of alcohol, or just sleep. I recognize these are all very unhealthy ways of *not* dealing with my feelings.
I've had a very strong urge today to do all of the above, but I've not acted on these urges. I had an amazing workout this morning at boot camp, and have the knee/joint pain to prove it. Additional exercise today is not really an option.
So, looking for some additional ideas on how others cope with stress in healthy ways.
I've had a very strong urge today to do all of the above, but I've not acted on these urges. I had an amazing workout this morning at boot camp, and have the knee/joint pain to prove it. Additional exercise today is not really an option.
So, looking for some additional ideas on how others cope with stress in healthy ways.
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Personally, I like to escape into an absorbing book... might not be the best thing for my social life, but it's calorie-free. But perhaps a hot bath with lots of epsom salts and some essential oils would be good for both your stress and your aching joints.0
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I go out for a walk- a casual stroll or a brisk walk, either will do. Not only does it burn calories, but it really gives your brain some breathing-time, too. I try to go out for a walk on my lunch breaks at work and it really makes a difference to my mood in general- on days where I stay in and work through lunch or just don't do out I can feel awful.0
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I do exercise to cope with stress. Also calling or emailing friends helps as well.0
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I'm fortunate to live on a fairly large, heavily-wooded property, and I perform all of my workouts back in the woods. It's like being in a distant land.
If you can find any way to replicate it, I highly recommend it.0 -
Wow...I just saw on my home screen that you had posted this and hopped over to read. So ironic, because if I had about half an ounce less of will-power, after the frustrating, sad, sh!tty day that this has turned out to be, I would drag you out for a few sugar-free cocktails. Instead I've had 7 Hershey's kisses which I have way more than enough calories to cover, and I've agreed to gym time later.
Healthy ideas...I like the book and bubble bath or hot shower idea mentioned above. Funny movies are a good stress relief, or really anything that makes you laugh and sends happy little neurons to your brain. Dancing around the house like a crazy fool is also fun...and even better if you sing while you dance!0 -
I usually listen to music, or I write. Or draw.0
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I take a long bath... then I moisturize, do my nails, eyebrows, facial... a total grooming process! I do it in the bathroom so I'm not tempted to eat. By the time it's over, I'm sooo relaxed I usually go to bed~0
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Def Jaccuzzi Time! Think I'll take one now!!0
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I talk to a girlfriend, have a hot bath or get lost in a book/show/movie. These are my non-exercise related coping mechanisms, walks are probably my number one way to deal though, especially with a girlfriend I can talk to about whatever is getting to me.0
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In all honesty, I'm not that great at handling stress generally. But lately I just add an extra workout, but since you said that is not an option, maybe drink some tea, listen to some music, and relax. OR journal out your frustrations. That usually helps me!
Or journal and drink some tea and relax0 -
A nice long slow walk. Emphasize slow to give your knees a break and it might even help loosen the soreness. Make it somewhere pretty if you can.0
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Go to a lake and launch some rocks into it. The heavier the rock, the bigger the splash and the more stress is relieved.0
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I'm fortunate to live on a fairly large, heavily-wooded property, and I perform all of my workouts back in the woods. It's like being in a distant land.
Wow. I am incredibly envious!
I like to go for a walk in the woods, but they are public woods, so I wouldn't do a workout there because there are other people around and I don't like to be stared at! :-)0 -
I have abused alcohol in the past, to cover up feelings mostly.
I've only just started to figure out some of my issues.
I don't really have an answer, I think it's a very personal thing. I would say that you need to deal with any underlying issues.0 -
I stink at coping with stress, but i end up working out, or game (I make sure no food is near me), or if my kid is up, go for a walk with him in the stroller at the park.0
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Cleaning. Go find a back room or closet that needs to be cleaned out or organized and have at it.0
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Just anything that brings me joy is a destressor. A nice cup of hot coffee, a long soak in the tub, a cuddle with my dogs or my guy or all three, a nice relaxing walk, phone chat with family or friends, and hang out with my guy or my kids or both. Those are my standby favorites that make me feel better when I'm down. If it's icky outside, settling on the couch with a blanket and a movie are nice too. Sex never fails to put a smile on my face either.0
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For me, if it's angry stress, I watch a violent movie like Aliens but if it is frustration-stress, I usually take a long hot bath while reading a book. I used to drink wine with that but I've given it up. Usually I'll bring a big glass of Crystal Lite with me.0
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Well, since you are avoiding alcohol, I will give you my other option. Hot bath and a good book on the Kindle. Just make sure you dont drink and take your kindle to the tub. You might have to get a new one.
Way to stay strong by the way.0 -
Impromptu dance party...even in the car.
Turn on something super cheesy/fast, roll down your windows and rock out! It'll make you feel even better if you make strangers smile in the cars around you. :-D0 -
Drive around and sing music...I know it totally sounds lame, but it works!0
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I know how you feel, working out works for me but nothing beats an adventure in the mountains, or the beach. I could be having the sh*ttiest day ever but a good battle with crazy waves in Huntington Beach washes it all away. also some quality time with my crazy (single) friends.
and of course when I have my son with me, its always a good time. I've never been a stress eater though, I don't know how that works because when I'm stressed my stomach is usually in knots and I can't hold down food.0 -
Thank you all for the ideas! I really like the idea of a hot bath, dancing, reading a book (although not sure I could concentrate right now), walking, and being outdoors in general. If lived remotely near a beach markymark1980, I would be there like....NOW! The ocean by far is the ultimate natural healer/de-stresser for sure!
Ali - I'll take a raincheck on the cocktails! :drinker:
I think I'll go for a walk when it cools off a bit, and then end with a hot bath coupled with some Harry Connick Jr.
Again, thank you all for the suggestions and support - great ideas!0 -
Thank you all for the ideas! I really like the idea of a hot bath, dancing, reading a book (although not sure I could concentrate right now), walking, and being outdoors in general. If lived remotely near a beach markymark1980, I would be there like....NOW! The ocean by far is the ultimate natural healer/de-stresser for sure!
Ali - I'll take a raincheck on the cocktails! :drinker:
I think I'll go for a walk when it cools off a bit, and then end with a hot bath coupled with some Harry Connick Jr.
Again, thank you all for the suggestions and support - great ideas!
There is a prayer that is very helpful to me when I use it-
God- Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference for today.
Also, it is a great help for me to share my concern (being specific) with someone who caqres enough to be honest with me and help me see my role in the solution. Great job reaching out for help! Have a nice evening:)0 -
Running til I'm ready to drop, followed closely by target shooting or any sort of physical combat (with a willing partner of course!). Hiking or rock climbing too. Anything that gets your adrenaline flowing should do the trick. Good luck!0
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