LADIES what is the most important thing a man must have ?

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  • getthefuckupandgetgoing
    getthefuckupandgetgoing Posts: 35
    Not sure I understand the question or the answers. If I haven't talked to him yet how can I judge what quality he has that is a "must have"?

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    Well .... the thing here is there is something you are looking for before you even look I know I have seen me do it !!! so even if you are not looking you have an idea of what you are and are not looking for !!!!!!!!!!!
  • adorable_aly
    adorable_aly Posts: 398 Member
    Silly question tbh, we don't want one quality, we want a bunch of good qualities that make him 'him'.

    No good being funny but being a jerk.

    xx
  • Suezyq47
    Suezyq47 Posts: 199 Member
    Honesty. I cannot stand a liar. If a man is honest, then that is the most important thing to me :)
  • erin_zuk
    erin_zuk Posts: 226 Member
    sense of humour.
    a guy who can make me laugh and hold a conversation is such a priority over looks.
  • Kerilynnda
    Kerilynnda Posts: 129 Member
    sense of humor!
  • CatholicUK
    CatholicUK Posts: 88 Member
    He must be intelligent. My husband is the smartest bloke I know :)
    Oh and endless patience with me. Because I am not the easiest person in the world to live with!!
  • SPBROOKS68
    SPBROOKS68 Posts: 561 Member
    Love and respect for me:love:

    A job would be nice but a d*ck is a must...
  • SPBROOKS68
    SPBROOKS68 Posts: 561 Member
    After being with my ex I would say job and overall respect and love for the woman he is with.

    This is my ex too...Any other guy in my life must be very different.
    EX called me fat and stupid all the time and still does ---must be an issue with him since I am not Fat and make more money than he does and have a college degree. I think it made him feel better about himself.
  • DLKeeble
    DLKeeble Posts: 200 Member
    Self relient, motivated,always wanting to learn or be curious. A leader.
  • tashaa1992
    tashaa1992 Posts: 658 Member
    He's gotta have respect for his family, my family, friends, himself and I. He's got to respect my choices.
    He's got to have motivation for his health, job, life, you get the drift.
    He's got to be able to make me laugh and not take life too seriously. I'm a really jokey person and when I'm with someone I like to just goof around and I'd like someone who won't stare at me like I'm a complete loser, and just mess around with me lol.
    He has to be supportive, I have anorexia and I need to know you won't judge me if I start to relapse, but will help me back up again.
    He's got to be loyal and trustworthy. And patient, I have never done it before but I wasn't walking with jesus back then, I won't sleep with someone just because we're in a relationship, we have to be married first, I get most people aren't like that these days but my faith is important to me, more important than trying to keep a guy happy by sleeping with him.
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    A penis is really all I need.
  • LadyIvysMom
    LadyIvysMom Posts: 391 Member
    I’ll pretty much talk to anyone because you really can’t tell much until you start talking to someone. But in order for me to keep talking to them they must:

    Must be kind to animals.
    Must take care of their children if they have any.
    Must treat women with respect.
    Must be capable of taking care of themselves.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    A cake. A really big one.
  • abstrakt_star
    abstrakt_star Posts: 50 Member
    1. Intelligence.
    2. A sense of humor.
    3. Honesty.
    4. He must like dogs.
    5. Nerdy.
    6. A Job or school.
    7. Goals.
  • abstrakt_star
    abstrakt_star Posts: 50 Member
    A penis is really all I need.


    LOLOLOLOLOL
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    Multiple, multiple cats.
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    Basic, polite social skills.
  • LBxLB
    LBxLB Posts: 691 Member
    A job.

    :laugh:
  • DoomCakes
    DoomCakes Posts: 806 Member
    A good heart and sense of humor.
  • sunshine2212677
    sunshine2212677 Posts: 88 Member
    respect - which i think would make him wanting to ensure he has a job, would ensure he was honest with himself and others and wouldnt take himself too seriously, so would have a GSOH
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    A cake. A really big one.

    That's a lie, by the way. The cake part.
  • staceface519
    staceface519 Posts: 167
    Honesty. . . . tired of the liars, cheaters and no good womanizers. . . .

    im getting to old for that
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    Respectful!
  • sunshine2212677
    sunshine2212677 Posts: 88 Member
    Intelligence.....intelligence is intoxicating.

    i agree totally with that :smile:
  • blf112761
    blf112761 Posts: 7
    A sense of humor and intelligence are tied for first place. :flowerforyou:
  • natachan
    natachan Posts: 149
    Heh.. respect and dominance. For me.. but that's just me..

    I agree with the dominance part.
    I want to be the girl in the relationship. haha

    See, I prefer the same thing. I like strong men. If I have to take charge the rest of the time I want to be able to let him take charge when we're together.
  • heidiberr
    heidiberr Posts: 643 Member
    The ability to take care of himself :P I want a man who can take of me (not that I need to be taken care of), not a boy who I have to take care of.
  • determined136
    determined136 Posts: 330
    I don't think it is just what he has but what you have together!
  • ilovemybuggy
    ilovemybuggy Posts: 1,584 Member
    Motivation/Determination/Goals(Times are tough- so I won't say a job...but you must at least actively be looking for one- I have a kid to support- I won't support a grown *kitten* man who isn't trying)
    . And close behind that - a sense of humor.
  • tiffanyvc
    tiffanyvc Posts: 99
    Personal Motivation, which covers a lot of areas to me. Motivation for his job, his personal life, his health etc. I also date Geeks lol

    ^^^ This. Even about the geeks! Last Christmas, my husband gave me a shirt that says "I <3 My Geek."

    He loves me and I embrace his geek-ness! :love:

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