What do you say to your EX, after you've met your goals?

"Someone call 911!" when he passes out and hits his head?

Lol what, I don't need to say anything to my ex. I don't care what he thinks. You need to move on.

I smile and keep walking.... no words need to be exchanged.
Success is the best revenge.

I hug him, we chat for a bit and then probably go our separate ways. I'm friends with most of my exes.

So...want to get a drink later?

It'd been 4.5 years. We work in the same field, so peace had to be made sometime.

And I totally missed the "with your new SO" bit. Hasn't really happened.

I smile and keep walking.... no words need to be exchanged.
Success is the best revenge.

This exactly

In that situation I would feel rather sad for the things that had gone wrong between us. I'd say hello, and how are you, and if s/he hadn't met the new partner before I'd do a brief introduction, but with the body language indication that we're on a walk and want to get on with it.

Can't see why anyone needs score some sort of point with an ex. Do it for yourself, maybe?

Don't ya wish your girlfriend was hot like me?!

Nothing, the best revenge is a life lived well.

*if* he said anything to me instead of trying to hide in the nearest hole...
I'd say hi and thankyou if he noted my weight loss. I've already seen him a few times after splitting and have lost 20-30 kg/ 44-66 lbs and he hasn't said anything.
Secretly I'd be laughing my head off knowing he'd be hating me and seriously jealous. Jealous for himself (as he tries to lose weight in insane ways and it never works, he's just a pig) as he's heavier than when we were together and jealous that his new wife doesn't look half as hot as I do. I know he is very looks focused. He'd be hating me as I acheived something he always wanted me to, without him.

Nothing. Not worth my time. If I was still that hung up on them, I would see that as an issue.

Why say anything? Why let the person think that you've done all of this work to better yourself as a way to get back at them? If you did, that's pretty sad - you've given someone that much power over your life. And I imagine that the encounter wouldn't be all that satisfying in the end.

So, in short, screw 'em and move on. Don't give up your freedom to be yourself - it's your life and no one else's. Seize it.

True! I'd just walk as I hadn't seen him LOL! Or perhaps a tight little smile instead.

Well...one I'd run away from...and the other I'd say "hi" to since we parted on good terms and he always told me I was gorgeous.

It depends on which ex. If I saw one of them, I would duck behind the nearest thing and do whatever I could to avoid him.
But, most of my exes are nice people and I would probably just be friendly and ask how they are.

For me, depends on the ex. A couple of exs from way back are good friends of mine, so I'd be happy to introduce my boyfriend and make conversation. They're both married to wonderful women anyway. As for the rest of them...I'd be civil, possibly even cordial, except for the last one. We don't really have anything to say to one another. He always told me that my weight didn't matter, but I have recently found out that he spoke just as poorly of me and my weight problems as he did about another of his exs. She is a wonderful girl (who happens to be on an insulin pump since childhood). He's already pissed because I didn't wait a year to start dating someone after he parted ways with me, and he can't stand the fact that I'm not pining over him. That one, I might give a polite nod to, but I don't think words would be necessary, regardless of whether I've met my goal. I am a sexy woman (I'm starting to believe it when my boyfriend tells me this!), and I have a wonderful, loving and handsome MAN who loves me just like I am. I don't feel the need to say anything one way or the other.

So, incredibly long story short, probably depends on your relationship with the ex, and why you'd want to say anything in the first place. Just be happy you met your goal, and that you have someone new to focus your time and attention on! :drinker: