What do you say to your EX, after you've met your goals?

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  • secrets_out
    secrets_out Posts: 684 Member
    Suck it bit ch
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
    I'd probably have to say, "Hey there... yeah, it's me" because by the time I hit my goal weight, I will have lost 187 lbs. and be way less than 1/2 of the size I was when I met him. I doubt he would recognize me at that point if we just passed one another on the street.
  • MMarvelous
    MMarvelous Posts: 1,067 Member
    *in my Nas voice from 1999* HATE ME NOW!
  • childofArtemis24
    childofArtemis24 Posts: 334
    I don't day anything either, I just smile and keep walking too. Most of the time they are speechless to see me , in the same place. But , I changed everything about me , after I got dumped by a guy I really really liked. (Totally not my fault). And he couldn't believe it was me. I live in a very small town, so you always hear what your exs are up too. So they know about your success!
  • HotDolphinMama
    HotDolphinMama Posts: 82 Member
    Hopefully, you will enjoy the look on his face. Say "hello, good to see you", and keep it moving. The best revenge is knowing that you were the best thing they lost - thick or thin!!!! If it takes losing weight and toning to get them to look twice then you don't want em anyway. Changing yourself for anyone other than yourself never works out. You'll end up bigger & more unhappy than ever that way. Be proud of yourself for what you have accomplished. If they truly cared about you, they will be proud of you too.
  • hottiebikerchick
    hottiebikerchick Posts: 187 Member
    Nothing. They are an ex for a reason. :smile:
    [THIS- I agree....
  • cakelady69
    cakelady69 Posts: 228
    I smile and keep walking.... no words need to be exchanged.
    Success is the best revenge.

    This is it exactly. Weight was a huge issue in my marriage. So no words would be perfect. Only problem is I see my ex several times a week when we switch the kids. So he's watching the transformation.
  • 1Kristine1
    1Kristine1 Posts: 697 Member
    "We are never ever ever, getting back together"

    Sorry I just had to :wink:

    ...but no I dont have any exes that I am hating on so I would probably just stop and say hi I guess.
  • Spartan_Maker
    Spartan_Maker Posts: 683 Member
    "Hello. I hope you're doing well."
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    Sorry I shot you?....again
  • chubbygirl253
    chubbygirl253 Posts: 1,309 Member
    i have nothing to say. but if i ever had an ex that thought i was too fat or didn't think i could do it i'd probably say suck it
  • msafunk
    msafunk Posts: 163 Member
    I ran into my ex a few months ago at Target while filling out a prescription for birth control. ha. He was waiting in line behind me to get antibiotics because he had a tooth pulled.

    I'm nowhere near the weight I want to be, but I was dressed the way he always bugged me to dress, but never had the confidence to.

    I said "Oh hi. How are you doing?" (after pretending to not recognize his cough behind me), I let him talk (He's a big talker... so he chatted at me for a good two minutes) and then told him to feel better, and that I was heading out to the beach with the man I left him for.

    Next time I see him, I'm hoping to be a bit lighter and have an engagement ring. He screwed me up pretty bad, and I gained 50lbs while I was with him. All I want is for him to see me happy and at the weight I was when I first met him.
  • justal313
    justal313 Posts: 1,375 Member
    YOU CHEATING *kitten*!!!

    I'll say that now, tomorrow or anytime I ran into that cheating *kitten*.
  • Tsunami79
    Tsunami79 Posts: 122 Member
    Depends on the ex, two I am good friends with, so I would give them a hug, and ask how they are doing.

    One I would run as far away as I could, and probably call the cops.

    One I would just turn my head and walk the other way.
  • DawnEH612
    DawnEH612 Posts: 574 Member
    If it was my most recent ex, I would introduce them... He and I are finely on friendly terms, go to the same gym and see each other several times a week. Funny thing, i saw a guy i have had desings on, at the gym tonight. I wnt to say hi and realized he was working out with my ex? I asked if I had introduced them at one time and they both said NO.... So I did. We joked around but my ex being a trouble maker and the guy I have designs on asked how I knew... I told him... I dated him. Later my ex told me that he it in a good word for me! Cool!!!!
  • jazee11
    jazee11 Posts: 321
    just live your life, do your best, and do it for you. if you run into an ex, be polite, keep it light and brief, and keep moving forward.

    ^^this


    Keep moving forward with a smile on your face.
  • PapaDunx
    PapaDunx Posts: 243
    "Can I have my vibrating sheep back please?"
  • LifestyleChange33
    LifestyleChange33 Posts: 169 Member
    Nothing. You just smile and look good as you walk away ;)
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    not a thing...my ex's mom works with my mom, so I know that he's getting the clif notes every so often and I know that his mom really really regrets how badly he screwed this relationship up.

    And knowing his mom, she's pile driving THAT into the ground every damn time she talks to him. So really? what do I have to say that hasn't already been said to him by his mother.........repeatedly....at least once a week....

    so nothing...i'm good, I moved on and I feel fabulous, I don't need to waste time on him and how he's feeling about it all.
  • heatherloveslifting
    heatherloveslifting Posts: 1,428 Member
    I hug him, we chat for a bit and then probably go our separate ways. I'm friends with most of my exes.
    :heart: Me too.
  • Chainie
    Chainie Posts: 82 Member
    "Can I have my vibrating sheep back please?"

    I don't have any exes. But that doesn't stop me from ROFL at this comment hahaha. Love it. ;-P
  • alie001
    alie001 Posts: 59 Member
    This would be a good indication that I am totally over him since I don't care either way what he thinks.
  • tennisbabe94
    tennisbabe94 Posts: 444 Member
    I'd just make small talk! It's no big thing. Make small talk and walk away feeling like hot *kitten*, that's my strategy!
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    I would pretend I didn't see them or like my phone suddenly went off or something.
  • tennisbabe94
    tennisbabe94 Posts: 444 Member
    I would pretend I didn't see them or like my phone suddenly went off or something.

    Hahhaa this is my life! I do that all the time. :laugh:
  • hiddenaudacity
    hiddenaudacity Posts: 122 Member
    That would be awesome!! I ended things with my ex, but he's hasn't spoken to me since, and that was over a year ago. I would say, "hi.." and hope that he would strike up a conversation with me so I could get a chance to show him how I am now. Then I would walk away giddyish and gloating.

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  • JesseJaymz
    JesseJaymz Posts: 30 Member
    My favorite response would be what 'Tracy Jordan' from 30 Rock says when he's trying to do the "ultimate insult" to mess with Dotcom's head. He walks right up to him and says "oh, hello Dotcom, it's nice to meet you" and keeps walking.

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