Progress Pics, 111lbs lost, advice wanted please!

Hi guys, I am getting a lot of opinions (some unwanted of course) about whether or not I should lose more weight, or how much more weight I should lose. I have somewhat of an idea of where I want to be, but since I am the one in this body, its harder for me to see myself clearly sometimes. I'm sure most of you know what I mean. I'm very proud of my progress so far, but I am still stuck in the mindset of being huge. My body has been adjusting to the size I am now so even though I have lost 111 pounds so far I feel sometimes as if I am still that girl I was. I know I'm not, just asking for some honest advice. Please don't get the impression I'm fishing for compliments, I just would really like the advice and opinions from people actually GOING through everything I'm going through, instead of outside opinions from people who haven't made this journey.

Height" 5'2
Starting weight: 267.2
Starting pant size: 26
Starting shirt size: XXXL

Current weight: 155.8
Current shirt size: Medium/small
Current pant size: 8-12

Goal weight: Between 100-120 pounds

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  • Sweetsugar0424
    Sweetsugar0424 Posts: 451 Member
    I can't see your pics. I can't really say from your stats what would be reasonable or not as I'm 5'11 so numbers would be very different for us.
  • _stephanie0
    _stephanie0 Posts: 708 Member
    you look STUNNING!! you're sooo gorgeous!! congrats to you so far!!

    i would say focus more on weight training now than cardio. eat a fairly decent amount of calories (http://scoobysworkshop.com/calorie-calculator/) to maintain muscle.

    weight train (HEAVY LIFTING) 4-5 days a week
    cardio (HIIT training will be best) 3-4 days a week.

    eat clean!!

    the last few pounds are the hardest. just enjoy the process <3
  • Sweetsugar0424
    Sweetsugar0424 Posts: 451 Member
    Ok, they are there now.

    I think you look fantastic and should be very proud of what you've accomplished. If you want to continue to lose weight, I don't think it'd be unhealthy to do so, but there's no reason why you shouldn't be happy with where you are now either. 100 lbs might be a bit low, but I don't think 120 would be a bad goal to shoot for.

    Good luck on the continued journey :smile:
  • bcampbell54
    bcampbell54 Posts: 932 Member
    Set your own goals, and don't believe the mirror. It may take awhile before your vision of yourself is trustworthy.
    You've done great work so far, congratulations!
  • HeavyLiftGirl
    HeavyLiftGirl Posts: 1,267 Member
    First off-- you look AMAZING! Congrats on all your weight loss!

    Now for your question: I would go with 125lbs as a goal. I feel 100lbs may be too small for your build. Maybe shoot for that, and see how you look then.

    I have had amazing weight loss success using tons of Jillian Michael videos (before/after pics in profile if you want to see).

    I wish you the best!
  • beekuzz
    beekuzz Posts: 428 Member
    Can't see your pics either, but I just want to say CONGRATULATIONS on all your hard work. :flowerforyou:
  • justamyagain
    justamyagain Posts: 154 Member
    I know exactly what you are going through! I am 5'3, started at 206 and just hit 129. I'd really like to hit 120-125, but my friends are telling me to stop where I am at. I am going to start focussing on weight training and toning, instead of so much cardio. I do not think I have a realistic view of what my body looks like. I like to say that my brain hasn't yet caught up with my *kitten* :P
  • paintlisapurple
    paintlisapurple Posts: 982 Member
    Holy bejeepers you look great! What a difference. Be proud of yourself woman!
  • almarsala
    almarsala Posts: 168 Member
    I've been into heavy lifting for awhile, but I had to cancel my gym membership when I lost my job a couple months ago. I'll be joining again next week when I get a paycheck. I'm not having issues with eating or exercise, I eat clean and love the gym, I'm just wondering why when people look at me and feed me the whole 'no don't lose any more weight, you'll be too skinny' when I'm not even near where I want to be yet, I'm still not even in healthy body fat range. It just makes me wonder, why are all these people freaking lying to me...or am I really not seeing myself the way others do...or WHAT. It's driving me insane.
  • justamyagain
    justamyagain Posts: 154 Member
    Oh! You look amazing, btw :)
  • almarsala
    almarsala Posts: 168 Member
    Thanks guys, I really appreciate everything.

    Justamyagain, that's how I'm feeling for sure lol. Not sure if my brain just hasn't caught up or if people are just feeding my ego. I don't like not knowing the difference :(

    Also I can't decide if I wanna end up curvy or on the thinner side. But I DO enjoy the fact that it's all up to me :D
  • MKLC
    MKLC Posts: 13
    In my opinion, its all about how YOU feel. Don't look in the mirror for the answer. Is your body functioning properly (won't put gross details ;) heh)? Do you feel light? Check your BMR and see where you should be for your height, age, etc and go from there. Just remember its not about how you look on the outside. It's how you feel, if your body is functioning properly. Eat the proper amount of nutrients, exercise daily and your body will respond how it needs to. So long that you are being healthy about it. I'd reach out to a nutritionalist or a physician.
  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 8,514 Member
    You look terrific. Don't push to be a specific number on the scale. Tell the voices in your head to shut up :noway: and listen to the folks who say you look great! They aren't just feeding your ego, they aren't lying, they are merely stating the facts!

    Great job! Congratulations! :drinker:

    Good luck with the next step on your journey -- acepting your beautiful new body!:flowerforyou:
  • JLD81
    JLD81 Posts: 133 Member
    Congratulations on your amazing progress!

    You look great.

    I'm 5'8 so it is hard for me to say what is a good goal weight for your height. My advice would be to focus more, at this point, on trying to add strength training, as the others have said. I believe that, as far as healthy is concerned, you would still be able to lose more and remain healthy, but you also look great. If you want to lose more for vanity reasons, I believe that you certainly can do so and remain in your healthy range, just don't over restrict or over exercise to do so. Adding strength training will allow your body to intake more calories without losing weight because you will increase muscle. At this point you might consider a heart rate monitor to get accurate daily intake goals based on your output.

    Your mind will catch up with your body, just make sure to allow it time to do so! Enjoy!
  • I was around your age when I lost weight the first time and had the EXACT same issue.I felt like the same size (obviously wasn't) I think I decided to stop losing weight when I was able to maintain the weight I was at that point. I gained the weight back but the first time I lost weight was not due to a diet NOT an acutaly lifestyle change like this time around.Anyways best of luck doll and congrats on 70 lbs lost and please don't take for granted how you feel at your current weight (mistake I made)-xo
  • marvelmo
    marvelmo Posts: 119 Member
    111 pounds! Just amazing! you are gorgeous! I'm inspired! The old saying "Don't fret the small stuff, it's all small stuff may apply"
    In a nation where obesity rules (counting myself - but on my way to healthy) there's a mind set of what is healthy. Sadly, their data is skewed as most people are at least over weight so to them that is the norm, the healthy. I'm 5'9" and many years ago weighed 120 a great weight for my frame and dealt with the same "eat more your too skinny comments". People love others with food most times it's not intentional so recognize their food offering as saying I love you/you look fabulous partake if you really are hungry or smile and decline. In the end its never about anyone but you. You set your goals work toward them whatever weight you feel good at and perhaps along the way the food offerers will join you on the path to health. Good luck and continued success on your journey
    Keep up the amazing work
    Be Proud
  • That's a lot of weight! 111 pounds! Awesome accomplishment. I'm 5'1" and started out at 172. My initial goal was 125. At that point I reassessed and decided to lose some more, if it was fat and not muscle. I'm now at 116 and have never been more fit. I also feel great. So make an initial goal. It can be 135 or so. Then when you get there reassess. You'll know.
  • Miss_Ever55
    Miss_Ever55 Posts: 14 Member
    Hey, I know EXACTLY how you feel! I have lost 105 pounds in total, and it is such a weird feeling! I mean I feel great, but I still reach out for the bigger size dress in shops, and the fat girl is still in my head. In the last few months I've noticed that guys have been flirting with me and most of the time it's nice but , that fat girl is still saying in my head " are they serious? can't they SEE me?"

    I still have about another 30 pounds to go and I want to tone up, and tighten the skin. But I just want you to know you look BEAUTIFUL! If you want to hit the 120 mark then I think that'd be fine, it is just toning up the skin now. If you ever need a friend on here that knows what your going through - i am here!
  • trixiemou
    trixiemou Posts: 554 Member
    I understand how you feel, I was constantly being told off by my sister when we out clothes shopping as I would pick up the size 14. I can now see how big that size looks for me without having to try it first. Its a nice feeling, when you eventually get there!

    I am 5'4 and generally maitained 145lb for two years +.as I was quite happy being there. Now I am trying to lose that extra 10 lbs as that feels right.

    It should always be about how you feel, and how you are coping.

    You look lovely, maybe its time learn to enjoy it. x
  • Wow! You look incredible!!!!! I agree that more weights, less focus on cardio would work best for you. I am 5"5 and btwn 127&130. Sure, I'd like to be 115, but that's just not my body type. I'd have to starve and I refuse to do that;) don't take other peoples opinions of what your weight should be. Where do YOU feel comfortable? That's all that matters.
  • You look great! well done. This is what I think, my family have started the don't lose too much weight line, apart from my mum, who realises its a health and fitness journey, rather then a weight loss one. I have a target weight of of 140lbs and I am 5'6 and of a medium build, current weight is 153lbs, but I plan to build muscle so I may go lower then this then work my way back up. Anyway it depends on what look your going for and for your height it doesn't sound extremely excessive, but maybe up it a little a pound or 2. Don't listen too peoples opinions, you will find alot of it is jealousy. just eat healthily and exercise and be patient because this last bit is the hardest as I am finding sigh...............
  • I would say that wherever YOU feel the most comfortable and confident, then that is your perfect size. You are beautiful before and now!
  • AmyM713
    AmyM713 Posts: 594 Member
    Great job at all the weight lost, I myself am 5'1" and am aiming for 115lbs, like others have said 100lbs may be too small, but its your body and as you get to the weights you can decide how you feel. Good luck on the rest of your journey!
  • CoCoBean14
    CoCoBean14 Posts: 107 Member
    LOVE LOVE LOVE your hair!!

    I think you look great, but like some other people are saying, 120 would be a good goal. You look good as you were. Maybe maintain your weight for a while and see how you feel? Then work your calories down as you see fit!

    Congrats!
  • cgarand
    cgarand Posts: 541 Member
    What a wonderful transformation! I am just starting my mega weight loss journey. I focus more on being consistent with workouts and eating healthy than what the scale says. I think that if you focus on just maintaining your healthy choices and challenging yourself physically (start some weight training and toning if you don't already) then your body will just find that place where it want's to be. People I have talked to that have reached their goal on the scale say the scale fluctuates between 5-10 lbs above and below their goal and they still have to pay attention to their diet and exercise. You do look amazing though!
  • When I first started MFP I set a goal for 180. I bit high I know, (I am 5'10 so it's a bit different for me) but I haven't ever been that small and I didn't know how I would look at that point or if I was even able to get there. Now that I am getting closer I can see the finish line. However my weight loss journey isn't just about my weight. It's also how I see myself. And the reason I am telling this to you is because I get the impression you are going through something similar.

    To me I am still a big girl and though I can really see the difference....... at times I swear I gain it all back and I feel a humongous as I did when I started. So when I reach my goal I plan on maintaining for a while. Let my skin catch up, my mind catch up and prove to myself I can maintain. Then after a few months, of adjusting to this new me, I can decide if I wish to lose more. I'll be more educated at what my body will look and feel like and perhaps that would be a good route for you.

    It doesn't matter what others say, but YOU have to be comfortable with YOU. It's not all physical, it's also about how you see yourself.
  • NotSoBigNeil
    NotSoBigNeil Posts: 215 Member
    Holy sh1t!!! What a transformation!!! You look fantastic!!
  • Wow! You look great! It all goes down to how YOU feel. Just tell people that it is a PERSONAL matter and you will decide for YOURSELF whether or not you will loose more weight. If they say anything negative about that, tell them it's extremely rude for them to make unsolicited comments and that if you WANT their opinion, you will ask for it.
    P.s. To quote the great Chuck Berry: It's a free country honey! Live like you wanna live!
  • You are looking FABULOUS!!!!!!! My opinion is fairly simple... Do what you think is best!!!!! :) You have already accomplised SOOOOOO MUCH!!! You know what you're doing girl :) NO DOUBTS!
  • NorseMaiden
    NorseMaiden Posts: 95 Member
    I'm 4' 11" and I know exactly how you feel. My goal weight is 120 which is right at the top of a healthy bmi for my height. With you being taller (but not a lot taller) I'd say you might want to just shoot for 120 as well and see how it is...100 could be too gaunt and there is NOTHING wrong with having curves. Myself, I rarely see the smaller self in the mirror that people tell me I've become...and it can be very frustrating. Shopping is very frustrating because I still shop for the big girl. I've made huge strides in Jean sizes and purchase those that fit...but I still wear huge shirts. I wish I had some magic advice. I really do. All I can say is this journey is not an easy one and we ourselves are often not the best judges. Listen to the people that you trust. Maybe somewhere along the way that's how we learn to trust ourselves.

    You look fantastic!
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