OMG I just want to cry!!!

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  • SyntonicGarden
    SyntonicGarden Posts: 944 Member
    Job hunting is a full-time gig.

    As some of the others said, check out temp agencies. It might help you get into a place that'll make you temp-to perm. I might just be a temporary situation that allows you to pay bills.

    If you have time to volunteer as you search for a job, that'll help you network. It'll also help fill the unemployment gap a bit and give you an answer to the "What have you been doing during this time frame?" question. Some places, like hospitals, actually give small benefits to volunteers, like a free meal during their shift. Again. This gets you out and networking with people.

    Additionally, have someone else, preferably someone in HR or recruiting, look at your resume. It could be that there's an issue with the formatting or that you're not presenting yourself as a strong candidate. You might have all of the qualities that they're looking for, but if that info isn't presented the right way, your resume gets tossed to the side. (Perhaps consider a functional versus the traditional chronological resume, depending on what you're going for.
  • korsicash
    korsicash Posts: 770 Member
    Face to face, you need to put a face with the all the paper work. And look like you care. When I was a hiring manager the people that came in to tell me they had submitted an application and were dressed for an on the spot interview usually got one. Not saying they all got hired but I gave more time to those who looked as though they respected themselves and my time. Good luck.
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    Draft up a great cover letter that is specific to every job you apply for (don't just use a generic one), and don't just list your attributes but state how the skills and experience meet the needs of the position or can enhance the position applied for.

    Also don't get discouraged. A lot of times I find with job hunting it is the rule of 10, depending on the job market, may be more or less. The rule of 10 is that for every 10 jobs you apply for you will get one interview
  • Betsiz17
    Betsiz17 Posts: 95 Member
    I would have to agree with people who say networking is the way to go. Are you affiliated with any organizations? If so, keep talking to people. It is tough out there, no doubt. Keep the faith, though and try to keep your attitude positive.
  • Dragonnade
    Dragonnade Posts: 218 Member
    Volunteer in the mean time so you look like a well rounded individual.
    Ensure your CV is top notch.
    Ensure you're answering their questions how they like to see it (nightmare. My mate who works for the civil service (UK) is aces at their forms; I couldn't get an interview despite 8 months of trying!)
    Think of a way to stand out.

    And work hard. All the time. At getting the job, at keeping the job, of promoting yourself out of the job.

    Took me 8 months to get my first job despite graduating from uni wtih a first in law. 3 years later I'm self employed doing what I love. Foot in the door is always hardest but persistence coupled with improving your line of attack is the only way.

    Or nepotism. Got an uncle who owns a multi national?
  • Nell720
    Nell720 Posts: 7 Member
    Your resume has to be tailored to the specific jobs your are looking for. You should have a different resume for different jobs. Your resume should stand out from the rest. Take a look at your resume and the jobs your are applying for and make sure you hit some of their job duties. It should be short and sweet. Remember they are being screened by someone in HR before it makes it to someone who will actually make the decision. Also remember in this economy companies are looking for the best of the best. Keep looking and be patient.
  • Yeah, it sucks. A lot. And even worse, nobody really gets hired from online ads anyway. It's all about who you know.



    I agree, I applied for over a year online, and in person, but until I applied at a place where I knew most of the staff, and the owner, I didn't even get a call back for an interview. It was really hard and things were super tight, especially with 3 kids to support! Luckily I have an understanding family and a bf that is willing to take on a big family.
  • beachgirl613
    beachgirl613 Posts: 139 Member
    My last 3 positions I got through someone seeing my LinkedIn profile. Make sure it's up to date and sell your skills and experience. Network. I don't know what you do, but I belong to a couple of professional organizations where I constantly network just in case. Ditto to previous posters, hit up your friends on Facebook and twitter, they might know someone.

    Most importantly, sell yourself and tell them why you're the best for the position. Have a great cover letter and a killer summary of skills.
  • Go into the establishments that you want to work at...resume in hand. talk to the manager. dress professionally and follow up by phone.
  • tnjackso1
    tnjackso1 Posts: 312 Member
    Your resume has to be tailored to the specific jobs your are looking for. You should have a different resume for different jobs. Your resume should stand out from the rest. Take a look at your resume and the jobs your are applying for and make sure you hit some of their job duties. It should be short and sweet. Remember they are being screened by someone in HR before it makes it to someone who will actually make the decision. Also remember in this economy companies are looking for the best of the best. Keep looking and be patient.

    I agree, like my job....a computer screens for certain words and that's how it falls into the hands of man. Stay encouraged and count your blessings. You said you moved back home some don't have that option!
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    What does your fiance do? I think we all want that job! I can see how if you haven't been in the work force for three years you wouldn't realize how rough it has gotten to find a job. It took me 6 months to find a position in the complany I'm with now. I was applying all the time, went on a half dozen or so interviews. It was very discouraging. That's just our economy right now and you have to keep at it.


    He works for a contracting company in Aviation ..
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    I spent 7 hours yesterday looking for a job and about 3 hours the day before. Who knows how many hours I will put in today!!! Every place you apply online they want your resume and then for you to fill out your job history ... What is the point of my resume if have to repeat the same stuff!!!! I need POINTERS please by professionals :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: ??!!

    Network! Network! Network!! Target 10 companies you'd like to work for and talk to people. Someone knows someone that works for those companies. Find a way to get a foot in the door...you'll be ahead of everyone else.






    ya that is a great idea
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    I know it sucks!! I got laid off and I was job hunting for 5 months!! It's rough, I know but you gotta do what you gotta do!!! Good luck :)
  • BSchoberg
    BSchoberg Posts: 712 Member
    I've been on both sides of this situation - the problem with this market is that SO many people are looking for work, any kind of work, that if you have a position advertised, you're going to get applications from everyone - and only about 10% will even come close to having the skill set/background you need. Someone earlier posted about the apparent duplication of posting a resume and also filling out an employment history - this is why. From the perspective of the employer, you have to weed people out somehow. Even once you get down to a more reasonable pool of applicants, you still have far too many - so the first typo I see, that person is out. Period.

    From the perspective of a job seeker - networking is key; face time is key; separate yourself from that mountain of e-docs the HR manager (or whoever) is going through. Temp agencies are great - as are placement firms. Don't expect to start halfway up the food chain (never mind the top) either... but try to find something within your actual field of interest/expertise, even if it's the mailroom of the company you ultimately want to be CEO of. :) Be creative, too --- you might think you're a (insert occupation here), but those skills transfer well to something else you hadn't considered. And learn to sell yourself.

    Best of luck - to everyone out there looking. Believe me, as overworked as I've been during this recession because we're at a skeleton staff, I still know how lucky I am!
  • Been at it for 4 months and zero zip nada and the repetition oh my goooooooooooodness.
  • shannajojo
    shannajojo Posts: 192 Member
    I spent 7 hours yesterday looking for a job and about 3 hours the day before. Who knows how many hours I will put in today!!! Every place you apply online they want your resume and then for you to fill out your job history ... What is the point of my resume if have to repeat the same stuff!!!! I need POINTERS please by professionals :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: ??!!

    I'm not a professional, but I would say carry your resume on you, and go to job fairs, and just put yourself out there. Keep going, and do not give up.
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    According to a lot of responses, I am lucky. It only took me 6 mos to find a job and that's with a bachelors degree. Keep it up, you'll find something.
  • miltongurl05
    miltongurl05 Posts: 64 Member
    I spent 7 hours yesterday looking for a job and about 3 hours the day before. Who knows how many hours I will put in today!!! Every place you apply online they want your resume and then for you to fill out your job history ... What is the point of my resume if have to repeat the same stuff!!!! I need POINTERS please by professionals :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: ??!!

    I know all too well the stress and disappointment you are feeling as I was in your shoes on and off for a few years. Jobs are very hard to come by these days. My recommendation is to continue to apply; however, I would create a word document that has the general information each company asks for. That way, you can just copy and paste it (alter any information to address specific company requirements).

    Also, I advise that you try looking into temp agencies. A lot of companies.....from small to big.....utilize them for their needs. Some assignments are temp to hire so this gives you a chance to show them your skills. If they are happy with your work and need to fill a position, they will hire you after the contract with the temp agency is up. I found a lot of my jobs doing this.

    The main thing is to not give up hope! It is tough, but if you make the effort, it will pay off in the end! Keep your chin up and know you are a valuable asset to any hiring company! Best of luck to you! :)
  • thrld
    thrld Posts: 610 Member
    As someone who used to hire employees, there is a specific reason for requiring both a resume and a job history.

    The job history data fields are used to compile keywords. If a company wants to search for someone with customer service experience, they can type in things like "cashier", "customer service", "call center", etc. That's why these fields are so brief. Even if they aren't using a keyword search, it gives them a quick rundown of your history. From there, they can decide if they want to read your resume.

    The resume is to show you possess basic communication skills. If I received a resume with typos or spelling errors easily caught by spellcheck, a job description that simply said, "I answered phones," an email address like chicksrule at hotmail, or cutesy paper/Word background with a design on it, it was tossed into the recycling bin. The resume is your chance to put your best professional foot forward. Always, always, always use spellcheck and then have one or two people check it again since spellcheck won't catch everything (your/you're, to/two/too, here/hear, etc).

    Good luck with your search!

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  • aakaakaak
    aakaakaak Posts: 1,240 Member
    Use social networking to your advantage also also... sites like LinkedIn and other sites are great if you're looking for a skill position. I know several companies that post on CareerBuilder/Monster/Dice/etc because they have to for compliance reasons.. but really prefer word of mouth kind of referrals.

    Hit up FB, Twitter, etc too.. as they say.. "Sometimes it's not what ya know... but who ya know"

    This is a fact. Every "adult" job I've ever had was because I was associated with someone who was in charge of hiring*.

    *Except one job where my resume was picked up off Monster. However, one of the interviewees had worked at the same place I had. He knew several of the same people I knew, but not me specifically. It was probably enough to win the job over other candidates.
  • Apply for a job. Then...after a couple days go in and introduce yourself to the manager "hi I'm ____ I recently applied for a job and just wanted to see if you're hiring right now" or some other excuse. The point is you will put your name in their head. In some cases they will ask for an interview right there. They know you are interested now. They know you are willing to do the foot work to get the job. It has worked for me in the past. I know the job market sucks right now so don't feel down if it doesn't work that great. It is better than just applying, trust me. Good luck!

    Agreed - and be persistent! :-)
  • One site:

    Indeed.com
  • Zumbagurl64
    Zumbagurl64 Posts: 155 Member
    wishing you good luck with your job search! keep your chin up, determination will pay off! :wink:
    Gayle
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    vote for Obama if you want to spend the next 4 years looking for a job
    Vote for Romney if you want to have women;s health go down the drain.

    Vote for either loser if you want to see nothing changed.

    BTW I am sorry for your struggle it is not easy out there. If you want the job you have to jump their hoops.
  • Bahet
    Bahet Posts: 1,254 Member
    Unfortunately looking for a job IS a full time job! Hang in there, it will definitely take time!
    vote for Obama if you want to spend the next 4 years looking for a job

    Are you kidding me? I don't even want to get into politics but have you even looked into how the job market improved? Hundreds of thousands of new jobs/hires a month this year alone. Get your facts straight please.
    Obama has tried to get tax breaks removed from companies that ship jobs overseas and in another bill tried to give tax breaks to companies that brought jobs back to the states. The Republicans voted them down. You cannot blame the President for Congress's sabbotage. You CAN however, vote out the Congressmen/Senators who have made it their goal to sabbotage the people solely to try to make Obama look bad. Bohener, Cantor and Paul Ryan are chief among them.
  • BioShocked89
    BioShocked89 Posts: 330 Member
    I've been looking for about a month and a half now, it's hard not to get discouraged. I've lost count of the places I've applied to and I've had four interviews.

    Then this last one went really well. It's only a seasonal job but has the possibility of becoming permanent. The interview was last Friday, and the interviewer literally said, "You are exactly what we're looking for to add to our team." She told me I'd hear from them by Monday or Tuesday. Today is Thursday, and I got a hold of her. Low and behold, she went from having 12 interviews after mine to having 40. (They are hiring at least 34 new people). She told me if I didn't hear from her by Wednesday, to go ahead and give her a call. Bottom line is, I pursued her without being overly annoying. And, now I stand out from the other 150 people that have applied.

    I've read online in articles from various websites that online applications don't really get looked at, but sometimes that's the only way to apply. The managers that look at the applications usually say that if they don't spot anything that separates you from other applicants within thirty seconds, you're out of the pile.

    Make yourself stand out, make your application professional yet loud! Make them look at you. When you drop off your application, ask for the hiring manager-don't give it to some random employee. Get the name of the person you give your resume to, and remember what time you dropped it off. Give it a week, and them call them and show that you're still interested in the position!

    Read for yourself: http://www.gethiredquick.com/
  • BrianSharpe
    BrianSharpe Posts: 9,248 Member
    Take an inventory of your skills and what you makes you potentially valuable to an employer and make sure you sell yourself with your resume (it is often worthwhile to have one professionally prepared)

    Depending on your skill set and background have you considered making your own job? (no, not MLM selling) Self-employment can be incredibly rewarding (the bad news is that you're often tougher on yourself than any boss ever will be! :laugh: )
  • NikkiSixGuns
    NikkiSixGuns Posts: 630 Member
    As someone who used to hire employees, there is a specific reason for requiring both a resume and a job history.

    The job history data fields are used to compile keywords. If a company wants to search for someone with customer service experience, they can type in things like "cashier", "customer service", "call center", etc. That's why these fields are so brief. Even if they aren't using a keyword search, it gives them a quick rundown of your history. From there, they can decide if they want to read your resume.

    The resume is to show you possess basic communication skills. If I received a resume with typos or spelling errors easily caught by spellcheck, a job description that simply said, "I answered phones," an email address like chicksrule at hotmail, or cutesy paper/Word background with a design on it, it was tossed into the recycling bin. The resume is your chance to put your best professional foot forward. Always, always, always use spellcheck and then have one or two people check it again since spellcheck won't catch everything (your/you're, to/two/too, here/hear, etc).

    Good luck with your search!

    ^This. Your resume speaks volumes about you, so spend some extra time on it and make it perfect. Treat it like a mini-interview. When I review resumes I look for attention to detail as well as content. In addition to the items above, check your margins and fonts (don't use anything fancy - clean and simple is best), and try to be thorough without going into excessive detail. You can PM me if you want some more help there.

    It's amazing how many people don't spend the time on their resume. But the ones that do are the ones that get an interview with me.
  • MDeniseMur
    MDeniseMur Posts: 25 Member
    Not sure where you live but generally there are some great recruiting companies that are always looking for experienced professionals to take to market. Doing temporary assignments is a great way to keep your skills up to date, get your foot in a door and make you more employable. Agencies that do temp expect that you are still conducting your search for full time employment and ideally should know that is your goal.

    Often the best way to get noticed when submitting a resume and cover letter is to personalize it for that specific role. Research the company you are applying to, see if any of the staff listed on your website might have a mutual connection through Linkedin and ask for a referral. Network, network, network. Let everyone you know aware that you are looking.

    Best of luck.
  • SuperAmie
    SuperAmie Posts: 307 Member
    Apply for a job. Then...after a couple days go in and introduce yourself to the manager "hi I'm ____ I recently applied for a job and just wanted to see if you're hiring right now" or some other excuse. The point is you will put your name in their head. In some cases they will ask for an interview right there. They know you are interested now. They know you are willing to do the foot work to get the job. It has worked for me in the past. I know the job market sucks right now so don't feel down if it doesn't work that great. It is better than just applying, trust me. Good luck!
    ^^^^^^^^^^^
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